How to heal from the pain of divorce?

Question

Hi my wife is leaving me without any reason I have always treated her like a queen and always have love her I dont know why shes doing this. We have a baby daugther and its driving me crazy thinking that I wont be able to be with my daughter not because I dont love her but because of this any comments and how to heal from this will be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

let her go and try to be civil.

the judge looks down on fighting and bullshit.

share custody

dont fight over little **** as it's not worth it

go out and date, have a few brews and get some.. hey nanny nanny and beer heals all wounds

Answer 2

She should at least tell you why she is leaving. Make sure you express to her you want to give her some time to figure out her life, but you will be part of your child's life. Set up a nice and legal visitation and make sure mom follows it. Your child did nothing  wrong so why punish the child for not having both parents in their life. Do everything legally so it will not come to blow and a power struggle.  

Answer 3

First your wife has a reason for leaving, she just isn't saying what. Second check with an attorney and try and get 50/50 custody for your daughter. As to getting over this, you will have to take it a day at a time. Some days will be better than others but it will take time. How long is anyone's guess. But one thing to remember is to NEVER EVER say anything bad to your daughter about her mother. Remember your daughter will love you both the same and it will hurt her if anything bad is said about the other.

Answer 4

Fight for custody. Chances are shes up to something you didnt know about. Dont just sit back and take whatever SHE wants, its YOUR child too.

Answer 5

Well im one in a million guys that got there kids . Woman don,t like nice guys . Go for your kid to h**l with the woman stand up for yourself . Not going to do a bid of good kissing her behind thats what she is sick of