How to help boyfriend who lost his eye?

Question

what are the best ways i can be supportive and helpful as my boyfriend adjusts to losing his eye (from a freak accident). it has been since april the accident happened and i know it will take time but i want to do whatever i can to help, but obviously have no backround experience in traumatic situations. any good websites or books i can read to be a better person for him?? thank you!

Answer 1

I'm so sorry that happened to him! But I would just say not to mention it too much, becasue guys sometimes don't like you to point out their weaknesses. Just treat him just the same as you used to, and if he mentions it, listen and tell him how much you still love him.

Answer 2

Just be there for him and support him. Try not to let it affect your relationship any more than it obvisouly has to.

Also, don't bring it up unless he does first.

Not to be rude or nosey but what happened??? I am just curious.

Answer 3

thats so sweet of you. your doing all you can and your being there for him in the bad time. i wish my bf was more like you.

by the sounds of it your being and doing everything possible thre is noting else you can do!