How to help my mom get her own place to live?

Question

ok. this is a long story but i need help. my mom, step dad, and little brother live with me.

my mom lives with me she is 36 years old didn't graduate high school and doesn't have a job. but she wares the pants in her family of the 3 of them. origanally she was supposed to pay me 600 dollars for rent a month and give me half of whatever the utilaties. ha that didn't last long.

she has lived with me for 7 months and has been giving me 100 dollars a month for rent and no utilaties, they all have free range of the house and im stuck in my room at all time because i dont want to fight with her. i pay 1300 for rent my 300 dollar car payment and insurance

i cant go shopping for food i have to eat out every night because they will eat it.she costs me more living with me then her not living with me, and i cant deal with the stress, i cant kick her out because she has threatend to destroy my living situation. she cant be on orange county hud because she lost it.and she has horrible credit. and she has nobody but me. is there anything else that she could get that will help her with a place to live because i cant live with her anymore.

any recommendation are helpfull

Answer 1

How can she destroy your living situation?  Tell her you need your space.  Don't give her notice or she may trash the place. Get the locks changed.  I know it is not easy to do to your mom, but you will not be losing anything.  It's not right that you cannot enjoy your own home that you have worked for.  She is a big girl.  She will find a way.

Answer 2

just try to tell her that its time that maybe she should look for a house...I know its hard but otherwise how will she know??

Answer 3

tell her you are stressing about money, i dont know her personality but maybe you could bring up her and her husband getting a job? she seems like she is kind of taking advantage of you being such a good person.  

Answer 4

At 36 she is young and can look for a job any job. Her husband also should be paying for the rent and utility.What is the use of wearing the pants in your house yet you don't have an income.

Hey wake up and have a heart to heart talk with her.

If not give notice to move out and look for a smaller apartment for yourself.

You are an enabler to the two of them your mother and her husband and you have to stop.