How to know if a scorpio man is interested in you..?

Question

I have known this Scorpio guy for approx. 3 years but we never really spoke...only once did he ever tell me hi but only because we were in a group, it made everything hard because i was too shy to approach him. After some time i stopped seeing him around because I changed my friends etc. but one time we met at a club and we had been having fun with our friends, and he began dancing near me and smiling and messing up my hair - being quite flirtatious. but that was it, we didn't speak or anything. Suddenly, just yesterday i saw him again and we didn't speak but i got VERY attracted to him. then mid way through the night [it was at a party], I was getting a drink, and i saw him behind me, he looked at me and suddenly said "hey! you look great tonight..." i obviously thanked him, and gave him a complement telling him how great his hair was [random i know, but i had to think fast =P]. So what i want to know is...how would I know if he is interested in me or not? ps. I'm a female Scorpio.

Answer 1

Girl if you are a real Scorpio what is holding you back!! I'm a Scorp too, and if you want it go and get it!!! The worst thing that will happen is that there may be alot of sparks for a short time, but hey enjoy!!!!

Answer 2

They normally get to the point very quickly.!!!

Make the first move.!!!

Answer 3

why ask lol,you know he is!  unless you want to drag it out for as long as you can, what are you waiting for

Answer 4

What passion that would entail....

Answer 5

Well, one thing is for sure...and you must keep this in mind...it's that ALL Scorpios have an innate charm about them. There is just something alluring about them, and it seems to exude from their every pore. Their sexual appeal is also probably the highest...mostly b/c this sign is commonly associated as being the most...*ahem* "lusty" (sorry, I really couldn't find a better word.

I have a Scorpio friend...well, ex-friend now...and we met in 4th grade. He harbored a crush on me for years (I am a pisces), and I really liked it that he liked me, and for a while it made me think that I liked him back.

Then, in high school, I realized that I knew him too well, and I knew that if we got together there would only be ONE thing on his mind (b/c it is seriously ALL that he talks about). So that's one thing you need to be wary of. However, if you are also a Scorpio, that gives you an advantage, b/c it takes away a tiny bit of the awkwardness associated with flirting.

Scorpios are attracted in anyone that IS attractive, but when they find someone that really interests them, they will pursue them until the end of time. Scorpios can be very jealous, but they can also be very serious and if they are in love with their selected one, they will probably be very loyal as well...until the flames die.

Anyway, the only sure-fire way to know if he is attracted to you is if HE tries to talk to YOU a lot more...you have to remember that when you are at the party scene, people tend to drink and then for a few hours you feel this incredible high, so the fact that he was being flirtacious is a good sign, but you just have to see if he is that way with you outside of the parties as well.

Alright I hope you two become great friends...or maybe more!! Scorpios are great people, b/c they also have a deep passion for whatever it is that they care about.

Hope this helps

-Pisces2222

Answer 6

Well well well.  You two are the king and queen of mind games.  Neither one wants to make the first move, because both of you fear rejection.  However if you two decide to hook up, the connection could be mind blowing.  Male scorpios are very secretive because they're afraid that if they share any serious information or feelings, you may get the upper hand.  That's why he's so good at small talk, ie only speaking to you occassionally instead of having a meaningful conversation.  After reading your post it seems your friend may fit into a certain category of scorpios who swear that they are the sexiest things walking (and he might have a point there).  So take this---Every Scorpio alive is surprisingly susceptible to flattery.  They act aloof, but secretly crave attention.  Tell yours he is wonderful, smart, and gorgeous.  I hate to say it, but seduce him.  If you are successful, you will have his undivided attention tonight, tomorrow, and for as long as you want it.  Also patience is key to winning his confidence, but by the sound of it, you've been pretty patient already, so go ahead and take the plunge.  However don't expect for things to move quickly after you two make a connection.  He will need time.  

So in a nutshell.  The next time you plan on seeing him you better make sure that you are the hottest thing smoking in the room and lay on the seduction thick.  He won't know what hit him.

Answer 7

They'll pursue you! You'll know, trust me.

Answer 8

well he sounds like he's shy or something in public but come a club or party he's super outgoing so its hard to say if he's interested or just a flirt.

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