How to know if my dad is cheating?

Question

for the past month my dad has not been giving any money home from work for my sisters and my mom. he only pays the bills and the rent, i suspect its cause he hates my mom. anyways for the past few months hes been going outside at night at around 9.00 saying that he's getting something from the car. but comes back 30 minutes later. he also calls someone and he talks very quietly with that person, i heard that the person has a husband so im thinking its a girl and shes cheating. what should i do, is he really cheating?hes the only one in the family that has a good paying job.

Answer 1

Hes probably not cheating if he comes back home in 30min.. as far as the calls it can be anyone. Be easy on your dad if hes paying the bills and the rent thats alot for him to take on. I say as long as he's doing that dont jump into conclusions. When he doesnt come home till the next day or is making excuses to leave all the time for long periods of time than your gonna need to have a man to man talk with dad.

Answer 2

this is g*y, tell your mom

Answer 3

It is so sad you are stuck in the middle like that. I think mom should do the talking to dad. It really is not your call. If he is paying the rent, and the utilities, then I say tell mom to get a job and buy some food. If he hates her then what can anyone else do. You need to focus on school and being a teen if that is what you are. You should not hve to be worrying if your father is cheating on your mother or not.