How to know if your being stalked or your paranoid?

Question

At work this guy has been staring at me alot.He told another girl he thinks Im really pretty and wants to know if Im married .I said I have a boyfreind and Im not interested.Next every time I walk past him in passing at work he will say.Hey come here or how are you or hi or something.I have said hi then I scurry away making it clear.I do not want to seem rude but Im not interested.Next I went out to my car after work last night and tryed to start up my car.It would not start! It wouldnt even turn over.So I tryed it 4 times then I called my mom.I told her to please come get me.I look over and there he is his truck pulled in next to mine.I freaked! I jumped out of my car and walked past him.He rolled down his window and yelled something.I just kept walking. I went back inside work for 20 minutes and when I came back out his truck was still sitting there so I started to walk another way along the fence then finally he left.Now Im really scared.What if he did something to my car? How would he know i was broke down that fast?He just started working there this week! I try to be nice to everyone but I do not want anything to do with him.

Answer 1

Depending on what was wrong with your car you should be able to determine if he tampered with it, if it was just a dead battery which is what it sounds like, you probably left a light on or something and it was just a big coincidence. You could talk to your boss about it and get someone to walk you out to you car after you get off work, I wouldn't make any accusations yet, but just let them know you don't feel safe walking to your car and hopefully they will care enough to let another employee walk you out to your car. Just be aware of your surroundings and maybe this will all just blow over. You could take a self defense class to give yourself confidence, it is a good life long skill to learn in general and they are pretty commonly taught as city classes or college classes.

Answer 2

it sounds ike both but mosty paranoid

Answer 3

Stop showing fear,act cool around him,ignore him.It could be a fear of meeting a stalker and not a stalker you have.Talk directly to the people concerned,never through others.Distortion of reality occurs especially if someone else is saying you are keen,to wind him/you up.People can be cruel...

Answer 4

I think you're being a little paranoid. Just see what happens. Be polite and say hi.