How to know the right lady to marry?

Question

How to know the right lady to marry?

Answer 1

1. You must find her pleasing in bed. Not just for a year or two, but after you have been together for a long time.

2. Single out the most annoying trait her mother has and imagine living with this for the rest of your life. Does the mother nag constantly? Does she have hygiene problems? If so, you may want to re-think marrying her daughter. All women morph into their mothers at some point.

3. Do not marry the first woman you sleep with (unless you sleep with some more and then come back to her.)

4. Spend years monitoring your relationship with her. Then, pick the worst day. This is what it will be like being married to her. Everyone is on their best behavior when they are just dating. But, no one can mask their true feelings forever. Date her long enough and you will see the real her.

Answer 2

when you will see her ,you will feel that both of you are made for each other. its true.

Answer 3

You have to know it by whatever way all do.

pkn

Answer 4

when  the time will come u automaticaly know just wait

Answer 5

some people actually make a 'pro-con' list...the fact is that life is a gamble and marriage is to....your GUT will tell u, but without guarantees.

Answer 6

it may not be love at first sight but as the love grows, you will know. you will accept them for who they are faults and all :)

Answer 7

Act with ur mind not with heart....u will know what is good for u.

Heart is so freaky..it falls for all things beautiful & sweet.

Mind is the correct decision maker

Answer 8

Entrust the job to your parents. They are the best judges.

Answer 9

sMiLeS.. You have to feel that.

Answer 10

depending on the age.. Over 25

She'll make you realize why all of your other relationships werent suppose to last..

waiting for the arrival of her!!

Answer 11

You just know. Find someone that you dont have to change to much.

Answer 12

sounds clique but you'll know.

Answer 13

When you find the "answer" to this one it will make the 5:00 o'clock news!!!!!!!

Answer 14

Be honest with yourself and list out what you want from a marriage...how many children, where to live, vacation where, political ideals, how wealthy do you want to be, can you live with debt, can you live with clutter, can you live with an overweight person...and so on.

To help you get all this out, make yourself write 5 pages full of the answer to the question "What do I want from a spouse". You don't have to read it. But just make yourself fill up all 5 pages. You'll definately get out what you expect out of a marriage...at least, what you want today.

I would do this 5 page exercise once a year, because your expectations will change and grow as you get life experience.

Knowing your marital expectations will definately help you pick the 'right' spouse.

The tough part is that you often don't know what you want from a marriage because you haven't thought about what you want out of life. So you may want to do that 5 page exercise with the question "What do i want out of life?" first.

Anyway, the other half is knowing what your potential spouse wants out of life. If she just knows that she loves you yet doesn't have a clue of what she wants from a marriage, make he think about it...cuz, whether she knows it or not, she has marital expectations. And a couple years into the marriage, the clueless wife will suddenly start expecting things from you...things that you might not want to do/be. Love suddenly doesn't become enough...which is a bad marriage.

Only after the expectations are synched can a marriage succeed.

Answer 15

I think when you meet someone who shares your joys and sorrows, someone who makes you aspire to be a better version of yourself even though she doesn't try to change who you are fundamentally, that's the one you should marry.

Answer 16

You will just know.

Answer 17

You will see.

For an example: If she always calls you and always come over and take care of you.

Most important thing you will need to know if she is not a gold digger; then you will be fine.

Those are most important you need to know three things I gave you an examples.

Answer 18

after you date her about a year then you ask her to marry u