How to let my guard down?

Question

sometimes i have trouble letting my guard down, letting people get close to me. even my close friends, i don't really let them them in. they often don't know whats really going on with me. sometimes i feel like there is this wall i put up, especially when i'm meeting new people. i was wondering how can i stop being like this? and be more open?

thanks in advance

Answer 1

these may help:

1. http://www.wikihow.com/Have-a-Social-Lif...

2. http://www.wikihow.com/Improve-Social-Sk...

Answer 2

Loving and accepting people for who they are UNCONDITIONALLY will free you to open up. A fear of getting hurt usually comes from laying stock in others. The Bible tells us that there is no one good and that we all sin and falll short. Unconditional Love breaks down walls that we place in our heart. Walls were meant to contain, not bind.  Let go and see what comes...