How to lose a lust feeling??HELP..!!??

Question

i like/love 2 guys.

the first is my current going to be ex soon....i still love him but am loosing interest.....i feel bad leaving him cos i know he loves me and i love him..

the second is his best friend an am attracted to him..i use to like him only but have developed more feelings for him....

i really want to be with the second one but i know that feeling is more on the lust side cos he has a nice fit body and more talented...

at the same time i do not want to leave my current bf for his best friend....

i would like some advice....if possible i would like to chat about it....my msn [e-mail]

thanks a lot..

Answer 1

you DON'T love anyone, if you did you wouldn't for anything in the world leave your man for his best friend that trashy low! and to get rid of the lust feeling take a cold shower!!!!

Answer 2

hay babe, well does this best friend feel the same for you.... and i know how your feeling, i went throw the same its seems to just be a rough patch and if you really do love him there is really no reason to leave him. you seem to have your head on your shoulders but if you really LOVE your boyfriend, you wouldnt want to leave him. if you only THINK you love him, then maybe its for the best, but it will be hard for you to move on to his ex, without it looking bad sorry babe, i hope this helped. kaz

Answer 3

to satisfy your "lust" just go behind your bf's back and do whatever u need to do to get it out of your system :)

Answer 4

Sounds like you don't know what you want right now.  Maybe you should take a break from dating any guy and decide exactly what you want in a guy and why.  Then start dating again.  Dating your current guy's best friend is a huge mistake!  Why do you want to ruin their friendship?

Answer 5

Can you IM Yahoo users?  If so, try dstewart21...I have some insight on this.

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Answer 6

Girl i have been there and done that. I even went to the extent of making out with my boyfriend's best friend. But all it is, is as you say LUST! We human have a thing for forbidden fruit. We love adventure and the jazz we get from doing the wrong thing. But at the end of the day it is still a wrong thing. You will find that you will end up regretting leaving your current bf. And if you do anything with his best friend you will end up hating his best friend. So what you could do is take a break with your current bf, clear and your head and remember what made you love your bf in the first place.If its not working out leave them both and move on for your on good girl.For your own good.

Answer 7

Nothing like good s*x to clear matters up. It is nature's answer to most doubts in matters of love.

A good bout of it with  both would tell  you who to choose.