How to make a Mama's boy ,to make him think on his own and take his own decision?

Question

My Hubby is a Parent's baby 31 yrs old but even then runs towards his parents to ask for everything...he will be calling them up now and then and ask what to do abt this that..i am fed up of this..he even discusses each and every matter going on between us..due to which we mostly keep on fighting becoz of inlaws commenting on some or the other thing...helppppppp

Answer 1

just tell him the truth and that you want him to stop being a mama's boy, and shouldn'tt tell his parents about what goes on between you and him, that's plain weird, and you think it's not right.

Answer 2

This is a hard one, because it is very hard to change someone, expecially when they are 31.  Maybe you should try talking to him and his parents together.  Tell them that you feel this is ruining your marriage.  Always stay calm when talking to them and don't get angry.  Also, do not let them intimidate you.  This is YOUR LIFE, YOUR HUSBAND, not theirs!!!  Tell them that you totally understand the bond between child and parent never goes away, but this is rediculous.  If you are a Christian, show some bible verses about marriage.  There are plenty of good ones about a man leaving his mom and dad and cleaving to his wife.  Or what love means and how people  love should behave.  If you need more detail on those, email me and I will give you specific verses.  [e-mail].  I have no idea what type of people your husband or his family are, but you do.  So use your own dicernment on what they will respond to.  Give them examples of how their life would be if their inlaws interfered.  Or, ask your husband how he would feel if you ran to your parents about everything.  I'm so sorry this is happening to you, i know this would make me very miserable.  I hope my advise helps.  Just remember, try not to ever be vindictive.  Sometimes our own good behavior will effect the people around us, even if it takes years of patients and understanding.

Answer 3

He might have lots of Respect, Security and Trust in his parents, instead of fighting or arguing with him why don't you achieve the same?

Good Luck.

Answer 4

talk to him be honest about how you are feeling....but been there done that he is 31 years old I couldnt change a 22 year old so good luck...wish the best though on a real note hope things work out...

Answer 5

You husband is so dump there is nothing can be done about unless he himself realizes it. I would sugest you get separate.

Answer 6

learn how to type/spell first.  he's probably having trouble understanding you