How to make a cheating husband leave?

Question

my husband stayed out all night and still hasnt came home. he wont answer my phone calls and wont call. what can i do to keep him out because it may be some domestic violence?

Answer 1

restraining order, tell him to his face and have a body guard like a brother,friend something and stay with a relative until the heat goes down just make sure your safe

Answer 2

Unlike the answer some simpleton gave, the police can't help you and if anything will tell you that you can't banish him from the house. A restraining/protective order isn't the answer because in most all cases there has to be some type of violence or threats involved.

Smartest thing to do is what one woman said here. File for a divorce.  

Answer 3

Call the police when you hear him trying to get in!

Answer 4

You should leave and let him keep all the things he worked so hard to get.

Answer 5

Move in with a friend and file for a divorce.

Answer 6

Throw all his stuff out the door and change the locks.

Answer 7

Why don't you try being a little more grown up about this, hmm?  I understand your rage.  I get it.  I've been through the whole changing the locks, throwing his stuff into the street... blah blah blah.  

However, you know what really works?  I waited for him by the front door.  He walked in and I said, "You have ten minutes to explain.  If I feel at any time you are not telling me the 100% truth, we're getting a nasty divorce. If you tell me the truth, we're getting an amicable divorce.  The choice is yours."  So, he confessed to sleeping with some 19 year old slag from the bar.  I went to the closet and handed him a suitcase I'd packed for him as well as the reservations I'd made for him at a local hotel.  Goodbye.

He tried to work things out, but he knew when he married me that the one thing I demanded with no room for error was fidelity.  The minute his p***s was touched by another female, I don't want anything to do with it.  I don't want some STD.  We got an amicable divorce, are on speaking terms and I'm remarried to someone else.

Answer 8

Change the locks.

Answer 9

If your husband is cheating he is already engaging in behavior that could be considered domestic violence. Domestic violence is about gaining control over another person, and cheating is one way abusers do that.

Regardless of anything else, I would encourage you to seek a full STD workup at a local clinic or your general practice doctor. The information is confidential. If you do not know who he has been with, you do not know who you have been with either.

If there has been no recent (within the past 60 days or so) physical assault or threat to your personal safety/property, you might not be able to seek a protective order. If you are wanting to end the marriage I would encouarge you to contact an attorney and file divorce papers. You will probably be able to file a restraining order, although that might not automatically ban him from the marital home.

I would encourage you to contact the National Domestic Violence Helpline (1-800-799-SAFE) for an advocate in your area. A local program will be able to refer you to local services and will understand the laws of your city/county/state.

Answer 10

You file for divorce.

Honestly women, your men don't respect you while you are supposed to be married...how do you expect him to just stay out of his house??

Divorce papers cover EVERYTHING if you are smart enough to anticipate anything that could happen.

Answer 11

Change the locks, that ought to get a reaction.

Answer 12

Police can keep him away.  Get a restraining order and then he can't come within the limitations or he will be arrested and charged.  Also, you have to divorce him and file seperation papers, otherwise it will be difficult to file the restraining order since he is your husband.

Answer 13

Change the locks, or go to your parents or friends house.  

Answer 14

ok, make sure he's not in the hospital or jail cuz you'd feel bad if he was. if he's just being a dill wad then pack his s**+** and have it outside and call a guy relative or friend over. then u wait

Answer 15

For starter change the locks....and if he has hit you in the past get a restraining order on him...this will keep him 100 feet away from you ...