I'm 20 years old, away at college, and my little sister still living at home just told me that my father is angry because he found out a few things I did in high school when I was 16. None of them were very bad...i went out to lunch from school a few times (the school allowed it but my parents didn't want me to), I kissed a few boys my dad didn't approve of. She also said he was mad about me lying about my friends doing drugs...but my friends didn't do drugs. I don't know where he's hearing this information, I'm upset that he's assuming all of it is true without talking to me about it, I'm angry that he's complaining to me to my sister and mother behind my back, and I don't understand how he can be mad at me for insignificant stuff I didn't tell him about 4 years ago. How should I handle this, and what if anything, should I say to him?
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