How to make new guy friend.?

Question

please help me on this.

i just transfer to a new school, and i dont know anyone there. and i really want to make new friends. kinda like a guyfriend. a cool one too.

im not very socialize. im super shy and sensitive. so its hard to find the perfect guy friend. and hard to talk to people. im so shy that i cant even go up to a random person and say hi.

even though there are alot of cute guys at my school. some of them are just immature. which is not my type.

im doing good in school, but the only thing im struggling with its making friends.

please help me. if i dont make a guy friend by the end of september, i will litterly drop out of school because of depression.

please help me. =(

Answer 1

First off thanks for answering my question...

"AM I A TERRIBLE PERSON?" But I wanna tell you. Dont put such time limits on everything like .///// "If i dont do X,Y,Z by the end of this month.....you will make a good guy friend if you put yourself out there a little bit...If you want something you never had...you have to do something you never did. Ask a guy to hang out or go to the show...also you will always find people like you...try to find people who have similar interests as you. And it always helps to look hot!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I had luck with using the internet to "meet" people I already knew. Check myspace or facebook or whatever is popular in your area for guys you think would possible be cool friends. Send them a message saying something like "Hey, I know you from school right? What's up?" It could be the start of something more.

Alternatively, try to find people with common interests. If you see someone reading a book you like, wearing a shirt of a band you like, etc., just say something about it to spark small talk.

I would advise against just going up to someone out of nowhere and saying "hey, want to be friends." That just seems weird.

Hope this helps. Good luck!

Answer 3

just go up  to one of them and act like hes been or is a friend