How to make someone fall in love with you? IS it by intensive care or existence in his/her life or what ?

Question

How to make someone fall in love with you? IS it by intensive care or existence in his/her life or what ?

Answer 1

you can't. if controlling someones emotions would be possible, there would be far less frustration in the male-female relationship context. all you can do is to be yourself. and for god's sake don't act like a wuss, don't try to bore her into liking you and don't try to buy her affection with presents.

Answer 2

It is impossible to make someone fall in love with you. That is something an entirely different person decides upon, to wit, the other.

Let me give you a personal example. I have loved a woman fiercely for a few months now, and I am fighting for her heart, but I realize I have to just be myself, because I CANNOT MAKE that decision.....

Answer 3

Well! A healthy relationship involves the two people being 'totally free and accepting of each other', and choosing to be 'together by free will'!

  So the very essence of trying to 'make someone do something'/ 'manipulate people' - is leading to a low level relationship!

  If you really want to do that kinda stuff - there are plenty of books on 'game/ player theories'! Personally find them disgusting!

Summary: You can't choose for another. You can only choose (decide) for yourself, as to who you decide to be!

Answer 4

Be a lover of wisdom and virtue and you will acquire all the love you need.

Answer 5

Exactly--you put the person you love in the ICU.