How to make the wedding night more special?

Question

My fiance and I have been together for 5 years and have lived together for almost a year. We are getting married next Saturday. After the wedding we are spending the night at a Holiday Inn. How do I make the night special since it isn't going to be the first time?

Answer 1

Well, it's a little too late for what I am about to propose, but it is a good idea to abstain as long as you can before the wedding night to build anticipation.  Since that is not an option, can you or your fiancee try staying apart for the next week (i.e. you at your parent's house, or something like that.)  That may make it more special.  It's too bad you guys didn't wait though.  I have been with my fiancee for 6 years, we are getting married in November, and we are both virgins.  We're both 26 years old.  God bless.

Answer 2

some pretty underwear and maybe bring some spice tools...being adventorous or something...

champagne, strawberry and chocolate to play with and enjoy

investigate if there is a hottub at the motel, maybe you can arange to have them close it for just you to enjoy that evening before retreating to the room

the hot water with bubles can help you relax and get rid of sore muscles after a stressfull day

maybe you can arange to have some type of highly personal private vows just between the two of you to be exchanged as well

make sure to have the hotel staff maybe cooperate with you and prepare the room ligthing candles when your on your way, use scented candles

spread roseleaves around just for the romantic sensual setting, get feathers for sensation, have icecubes at hand, choco sause

basicaly things that can be used to just spend time playing exploring and such beforehand making a whole evening out of it

massage oil?

posible just aim to spoil eachother and cuddle in the evening, and relax before sleep (you had a long exhausting day) and wait with the consumation till the morning when you wake up to your first day as a wed couple

there will still be choco and whatnot left over from the day before the enjoy yourself and have some fun, and now that your rested and with more energy you probably will enjoy the consumation even more then when your exhausted and bathered meat after a long stressfull day

make the morning in bed long, and aim to have breakfast brougth to the room so you can have it in bed only to get up for lunch or the like, take a shower togheter and help dress eachother then go for a romatinc lunch before leaving *s*

this way you draw the whole experience out and make the most of it, and thus are more likely to remember it a long long time

Answer 3

I can't imagine doing anything more special than GETTING MARRIED!  

You can be sure the room is stocked with some water & snacks if you like, or bring home some extra wedding cake & eat it in bed (so be sure to have some utensils!).  Personally, my DH & I were so completely exhausted after our wedding he could have showered me with rose petals & I would not have noticed.

Answer 4

Give him a wedding present that will be different from the other gifts(besides the s*x). Something that will have him saying 10 years from now: "I remember for our wedding night when you: took me...., gave me..., sang me..., told me...etc." be creative. Something only he will be able to talk about with you.

Answer 5

Invite the maid of honor

Answer 6

I find the best things in life are unplanned...  

Answer 7

My fiancee and are have been living together as well, and neither of us is expecting the wedding night to be amazing or anything. I mean, of course the wedding day will be wonderful, but we're half expecting to crash right after because we'll be exhausted. We're having a destination wedding, though, so we'll be doing a ton of running around a few days before.

With that said, however, I think the best way to make the night special is to have a bottle of champagne and strawberries delivered to your room while you're at your reception. Have some of your bridesmaid's dim the lights and light candles before you get there as a surprise for your new husband. Just tell him when you get there that even though you've been together, you wanted to make it special and meaningful.

However, just don't be surprised if you both pass out and don't have that earth-shattering, amazing s*x. I think the wedding night relations thing is a big over-rated. Isn't that what the honeymoon is for? :) Just don't worry about it too much. The whole DAY will be special ... and you'll have a whole week after to create many special nights. I just wouldn't want you to put too much pressure on yourself for the "after the lights go out" part and not enjoy just being married.

Answer 8

It will be special because it will be sealing your wedding vows. Remember, you're not truly married until you've consummated. That is special enough all by itself. Don't worry about trying to manufacture romance- you'll be so tired you probably won't even care. Just focus on each other!

Answer 9

get some champagne and orange juice, chocolate covered strawberries, rose petals, bubble bath, candles.  Try something you wouldn't normally do, like use s*x toys, rent a video or try new position.  Make a cd of songs that mean a lot to you and your relationship.  Take an erotic dance class or watch a video and give him a little show.  Try dancing to the song Feelin Love by Paula Cole!

Just have fun!  You will probably be too tired to do anything anyway :P

Answer 10

Have a threesome with the best man.!!!

Answer 11

Stay with your parents for the next week possibly, abstain from s*x until the wedding night. Dress up in fancier lingerie than you have before or a pretty nightgown, have chocolate covered strawberries or whatever desserts/snacks you like available. Those are the things I would do.  

Answer 12

The simple fact that it is your wedding night is enough to make it very special. We didn't even go there until the next day! We're morning people, though.

Answer 13

Start off with a candlelit dinner.  After a nice bottle of champagne, dance a slow song.  Then offer to give him a massage.  Start with his feet, and slowly work your way up his body, skipping his private parts of course.  Kiss him dearly and tenderly all over his body.  Then take massage oil and begin rubbing it all over his thighs, while you continue to kiss and caress him.  You can take it from there.  In the morning, serve him breakfast in bed.  After breakfast, take off his robe, and tell him that you have always fantasized about a morning delight.  Begin by kissing him from toe to head, of course skipping his privates.  Ask if you can oil him and when you begin oiling his privates, ask him if you can tie his hands and legs to the bedframe so that you can do whatever you wish to his body.  Think of everyway you can pleasure him, and tell him he can only receive your pleasures, that he cannot give.  When you get him to the point of moaning and screaming with desires, then you lower yourself onto his manhood, and I think you will know what next to do.  He will remember that day at the Holiday Inn.

Answer 14

It will be special because it will be your wedding night! Don't worry about it!

Answer 15

To be honest with you, if you are going to have a big reception, you might be too tired that night!  :)