How to not attract submissive men?

Question

In terms of relationships? We all have our preferences, and I'm not really into dating submissive men..yet these are the kind of guys that like me the most. I personally don't want to end up with one, because things didn't go to well dating one (there was no chemistry and I felt weird).

Is there a certain type of women that submissive men like? It can help me figure out what I have that attracts men like that, if that helps. Maybe I can be more aware of the vibes that I give off. I'm an ambitious go-getter in terms of education and career. I'm also pretty opinionated and am not sexually conservative. I have a bad temper if provoked, and can get annoyed easily (even when I'm publicly polite for the sake of mannerisms). Do submissive men like that or something?

I'm NOT hating on submissive men. I will be friends with them and I think they can be great people, but they're not my type for dating/marriage.

Answer 1

If you're a steamrolling ,ball busting bytch, that's the only type of guy who will tolerate you.

Normal men want a feminine woman with a softness to her.

Answer 2

Maybe because you seem like a dominant person, and submissive men want that kind of woman.

Answer 3

The weak like the strong.  You answered your own question.

Submissive men like you because you're:  ambitious go-getter, opinionated and sexually open.  They feel this even if you keep to yourself.

These are strenghts that they dont have.

If you wanna get rid of them, just refuse them.  The more you refuse these kind, the more you'll meet them on your path.  But you have to keep your focus.

Its by refusing what isnt suited for you that the appropriate one will come.

Answer 4

Women dress/act/speak with men to attract who they know they can control. This is due to our DNA telling us that we need to control a man when we are pregnant, to guarantee our safety.

Answer 5

Be a submissive woman.

Answer 6

not to fight about it, but based on your self-description I wouldn't go near you with a ten-foot pole; you sound like too much trouble. I have better things to do with my life than put up with, to quote:



"an ambitious go-getter in terms of education and career. I'm also pretty opinionated and am not sexually conservative. I have a bad temper if provoked, and can get annoyed easily (even when I'm publicly polite for the sake of mannerisms)"

The first time you'd pull a temper tantrum on me I'd be out the door, as would any self-respecting, confident male. Whether you're "publicly" polite or not,  your "annoyance" sounds to me like just-plain bitchiness after the doors are closed. I don't like people acting ugly, and have no intention of putting up with it in my private life. I'm also no great fan of "ambition", which carries with it a strong scent of ruthlessness and meanness to those less fortunate. "Opinionated" likewise seems to me a synonym for "bossy". I like the sexually adventurous part of your description, but on the balance that's not enough to attract me.  

Be nice to people, caring and gracious, and you'll attract whoever you like, a fair proportion of whom will be assertive and confident males. Be opinionated, bad-tempered and  easily annoyed and you'll only be attracting those whose marbles are smaller than yours. It's your choice......

reply: make that an eleven-foot pole......

Answer 7

stop wearing stiletto heels and black leather...get rid of the whip.

Answer 8

Send them to me!

lol i'm kidding...