Hi,
I have been brought up in a modern but a bit conservative family.
We are conservative in terms of female hugging male during greeting as well as wearing a bit clothes which are a bit revealing.
For instance, ones showing a bit clevage, micro-mini's, especially spegetti tops... coz bra strip is sometimes visible... when a women is wearing it.
As i said, a modern family, so we are not living with 100 year old mentality that gals need to be in a completely covered clothes.
look at the following images:
http://images.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1065/812222131_2828d4ce93.jpg%3Fv%3D0&imgrefurl=http://flickr.com/photos/7903851%40N02/812222131/&h=500&w=418&sz=165&hl=en&start=7&um=1&tbnid=ZOH7RVHbxpcJ-M:&tbnh=130&tbnw=109&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dspaghetti%2Btops%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN
http://www.shirtsnob.com/archives/pictures/stewartmerino.jpg
My family has no problems with sleeveless,t-shirts,dresses till the time they are not reveling.
The problem is I really like a gal, everything is perfect.
But the only thing that created a problem is her modern up bringing.
I cant take her hugging male friends when greeting them. Also, i dnt like her wearing such clothes.
She wont change on this and i dont knw what to do?
I tried to tell myself to be more open minded, but it does not help.
As some of guys are A$$ho$$$, as i have been with them.
they don;t respect women, and only thing they have on their mind is S**.
I tried to tell her that this people intention when hugging gals is not tat of a friend, but her take on this is that, everyone is like this.
I just keep relationship as a friend with them, I don;t share my personal life. I understand that, all the men are this way only.
But my take is that when you know intentions of certain individuals are not appropriate, then shouldn't you change the way you are a bit.
i really like the gal, but dunno what to do?
She is very firm on not changing lifestyle a bit, and i am finding it difficult to digest when she hugs other males and even wears exposing clothes.
Is there a way to make her understand wat my concerns are? or somthing that can help me accept and be more open minded.
This is really important for me as, apart from this, we dont have any problems.....
eagerly waiting for someone to give me some suggestions....
Thank You.
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