How to politely decline...?

Question

One of the girls at my office has been invited to dinner at one of her friends houses who is EXTREMELY unhygenic and she cant bring herself to eat food prepared in such a dirty kitchen.

How can she politely decline??? She has already been stalling, making up excuses for a few weeks and doesnt know what to do...

Answer 1

She could:

1. Tell her you have some strange food allergy, like something that's very hard to cook for, and you don't want to put her through the trouble.

2. Tell her that you and your relative/friend are on a no ___ diet, so you don't want to put her through the extra effort

3. Invite her over to your house instead. (This seems like the best option.)

4. Tell her you are on a very odd eating rotation because of a new diet book you read. Say that you aren't supposed to eat before 10 at night because your stomach needs time to digest the food while you're sleeping.

Just edit whatever I said to fit your friends situation. Oh and sorry I said "you" a lot, I meant your friend, but it would've been too confusing that way...

<3 Kate

Answer 2

do not say i don;t want ot make up an excuse that is not true but sounds legitimate like i'm busy or i have to go to the doctor's

Answer 3

you have too say that you have plans for that night that's what i would do