How to propose to a woman?

Question

Geez, I really don't know how to do this. I don't want her to run away from me. So could anyone help me with this? How do I propose to the woman I love? 10 Points for the best answer, so please, POST POST POST

Answer 1

A proposal is such a personal thing, and not knowing either of you, it is very hard to suggestion. A proposal should be something that fits your personalities. Be is funny, romantic, dorky, whatever it is.

My fiance took me to a very fancy restaurant which was typical for us, he excused himself to the bathroom and then suddenly over a loud speaker he started talking and walked over to me with a microphone in hand, he proposed to me then and there in front of everyone. Shortly after I said "YES". Our families came through the banquet room, which had been decorated by them, we celebrated then and there. This fit our personalities PERFECTLY, I loved the attention and celebrating with our family in a very elegant restaurant.

My best friend is married to a tattoo artists, he proposed to her by getting a "fake" tattoo on his back that said "Will you marry you". Totally fit there goofy, tattood personalities. Then he had us all waiting at an ice cream parlor to surprise her. Totally fitting for them.  

Just do something that fits BOTH of you, speak from the heart.

Answer 2

The most intimate to me is by taking her some place that was either your first date, first kiss, etc...h**l if there is multiple places and they're within distance go for a date going to all of your firsts (or the ones you can remember) and then make the last one the most special. Tell her how much you care about her, your feelings, and propose right there.

It's not to expensive and very intimate because each location you'll have memories. For me this would be my ideal way of getting proposed to.

Good luck!!! and don't be nervous! everything will work out. :)

P.S. sports games and stuff like that is completely overrated. Don't spend a lot of $$...it's unnecessary. A woman would rather feel like your million bux then see you spend a million (if you get what i'm saying).

Answer 3

My brother threw a huge surprise party for his fiance and had my cousin playing the guitar when he took her into the house. He then began singing their favorite song and got down on one knee in front of everyone and proposed. It was so cute and romantic. If you don't want to sing, you could always have someone else sing for you or just have the music playing in the background. It's okay to splurge a bit because proposing is a huge deal and if it costs a little more than what you planned, it's worth it.

GOOD LUCK!!! :]

Answer 4

Hello Master Nick, well, may I suggest that you should take her somewhere that you have been before, some place that she loved. Pack a picnic lunch and a blanket. Make sure you have all this scouted out in advance, so there is no worries that way. After the meal, when you are laying together on the blanket you brought, tell her that you would love it if it could be like this forever, when she says "me too", then say, "well, it can be, will you do me the honour....." Or something cheesy like that that she will love. Best of luck to you and your bride!!!!

Answer 5

First, if you're proposing, you really ought to know the answer before hand.  And if the answer is going to be "no", then you should probably wait.

Personally, I would steer clear of the whole airplane in the sky or loud public announcement.  Tends to be expensive, and you're about to be spending plenty of money on wedding, etc.  Also, it takes something that is intensely personal and broadcasts it.  I mean, some people like that sort of thing, so you have to know yourself and your girlfriend.  If you don't know how public of a proposal she'd like, then I'd suggest that you might want to wait again.

My fiancee was expecting a proposal sometime soon when I proposed, and I did it during a discussion of our future life together.  It was very sweet, and my fiancee thought it very romantic.  It wasn't very stressful, and fit with our informal way of communicating.

One of the key things that I have heard is to make sure that it is special, no matter how you do it.  Don't just toss it over your shoulder or holler it across a room.  Do it in person, and really mean it.  Don't be nervous or throw it away - this is one of the more important questions of your life, so mean it.

Answer 6

http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engag...

try this link.

I thought my BF was going to propose at the Van Halen concert on Valentines day ( he didn't) That would have been so cool and unforgetable.

Instead a couple months later,  we went to dinner at a German restaurant, then browsed through an art gallery and ended the evening taking a moonlit walk around a marina. I thought he was getting his camera our of his bag, when he took out a ring box and got down on his knee and proposed. Of course I said yes.

When I was younger a former boyfriend and I went to the beach all day. We ended up going to the lighthouse and climbing to the top. He then got down on his knee and took a diamond ring out of the zipper pocket of his trunks. I was shocked. I did accept - it was such a great proposal. Too bad he was a cheater...

You need something romantic and unique to her. Do you play a sport together? You could run a 5k and have the announcer call you up on the stage and you could propose from there,

You could go to a fancy restaurant and have the waiter "serve" the ring with flowers and you then get on your knee.

You could have a flower delivery and mount the ring on a piece of floral wire and position it in the bouquet. (up high enough out of the flowers to see it)

I think most gals like romantic. But don't do something to out of the ordinary or you will tip her off. You want to surprise her. My best friend knew all her proposal details right  to the moment. It was not exciting to her at all, it was too functional.

I liked my surprises.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Take her to a baseball game and have an airplane fly over and spell out-  WILL YOU MARRY ME  ________?  Put girlfriend's name in the blank. LOL GOOD LUCK!

Answer 8

Well depending on where you live you could take her for a picnic out on the beach right before sunset and ask her. Or you could do something more flashy have a dress that you picked out sent to her house with a card telling her to be ready at this time have a car pick her up to take her to her favorite restaurant. It all depends on your taste and hers. If you want something that is Romantic or Flashy. Good Luck. let us know how it goes.  

Answer 9

well, first tell her..I have a special date for us, It's a surprise, just wear a cute dress it's all you need to know..then it's time to organize the best night ever.. A park in the evening, under the trees with candles all around, mellow lights..and rose's petals on the ground (rose of her favourite colour)  You can eat something simply..do a picnic..after dinner put on her favourite love song on the radio then make her stand up and you go down on your knee..here there's the speech part..tell her how much she changed you life, what she makes you feel about thinking to a future with her, and then the most perfect thing that you could ever say is: in whole my life, there's only one thing that I've ever been sure of..you! I wanna see you wake up in the morning and feel you fall asleep among my arms at night..just..make me the happiest man in the world saying "I do"..(her name), would you marry me?..while you say the phrase show her the ring..then it's all up to her..( all this thing you can do it on the beach if you don't like the park)..but If I was her, I'd love the park with all the rest..good luck!