First of all excuse my English because It is not my first language (I am a European student) .
Basically this is a question that has been going around my head for a while and now is the time to really ask it.
Basically I am wondering what the best way is to get over emotionally an argument with a lot of heated language.
Let me illustrate : There is this person at my university I am often in contact with that I really do not like. Basically I think he is very prejudiced and ignorant.(He comes from a lower class than me and such). He often makes comments about how Europeans are "biased" about things but then (he is Asian) often says what I believe are racist things such as "Europeans are arrogant" and "Chinese are humble and more intelligent than Whites". Comments that offend me alot. Basically what I would normally do is ignore this and not interact with the person. Unfortunately, I HAVE to be be in contact with him very much.
So we dont like each other but try to tolerate each other. But one day my "glass" went full and I exploded when he said another comment. I told him what I thought and left furious. Now after this argument I was very emotional and angry, and could not sleep that night and was talking to myself about how stupid this character was and such.
Basically I felt hurt and even as I type I am still angry and emotional.
So my question is : Exept time, what can I do to get these emotions out of my system quick ? I honestly tell myself that this is an insignificant guy and I KNOW he shouldnt influence my emotions but I cant help but be emotional about it.
So thats it, I hope you understand my question...Im sure a lot of you can relate to me cause those arguments happen everyday in our lives and are often devastating emotionally.
PEACE
Nick
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