How to remain happy and peaceful inspite of bad incidents and losses taking place in life ?

Question

how to get over all of it and try to reach a level beyond the gain/loss , smile/tears.. in life ?

thank u :)

Keep smiling :)

Answer 1

All religious philosophy, sooner or later, arrives at the concept of unified universe rule, of one God. Universe causes cannot be lower than universe effects. The source of the streams of universe life and of the cosmic mind must be above the levels of their manifestation. The human mind cannot be consistently explained in terms of the lower orders of existence. Man's mind can be truly comprehended only by recognizing the reality of higher orders of thought and purposive will. Man as a moral being is inexplicable unless the reality of the Universal Father is acknowledged.

Answer 2

As i replied you in my previous question i always  be conveying and be happy with satisfaction leave it to Him He takes care of me, Such should be the confidence we should have .Surender to Him

  

Answer 3

THIS SOUNDS SIMPLE - BUT IT WORKS.

WHEN A MAN WAS ASKED HOW HE SURVIVED A HORRIBLE WAR AND LOSING HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN  HE REPLIED "THAT WHICH I HAVE EXPERIENCED - NO ONE CAN TAKE FROM ME" SO NO MATTER HOW BADLY HE WAS TREATED HE KNEW THAT THE MEMORIES HE HAD OF LOVE AND AFFECTION AND SPECIAL DAYS WITH HIS FAMILY THAT HE HAD EXPERIENCED IN THE PAST - THOSE WERE HIS FOREVER.

AND "THAT WHICH DOES NOT KILL ME MAKES ME STRONGER"

THAT IS TRUE. LIFE IS SUCH A GIFT. WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE MUCH LESS FORTUNATE THAN YOU - SOMEONE BLIND OR CRIPPLED OR VERY POOR AND THEY STILL SMILE - YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU STILL HAVE A REASON TO SMILE TOO.

YOU ARE A SPECIAL PERSON  - BELIEVE THIS!

GOOD LUCK WITH ALL YOUR HOPES AND DREAMS  -

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

Answer 4

Life is partially predestined, a written and inescapable saga. It is when we are able to observe the writer, his calibre and aim that we are afforded the luxury of detachment from a world or circumstance wherein we are able to exercise no will or power.

To know he who writes our fate, and that which governs his will, is to resign oneself to a life of monotony, insipid pain and lackluster mediocrity.

One is then able to choose agonised pain, abject despair or complete and utter indifference. If you were plagued by a monkey and encaptured with no avenue of escape, you soon realise the futility of battle or dreaming, or aspiring to a peace or freedom that cannot be whilst the monkey stands guard with the keys of your liberty in his hand.

Answer 5

Have a close relationship with God and Jesus Christ, May God Bless

Answer 6

meditation , faith in god  can  help u a lot ,

muSic is the best medicine

Answer 7

The solution is "Prayer". When you are Worried or Over Whelmed..... Pray! Do not be anxious about any thing, but in every thing by prayer and peticion, with  thanksgiving, present yr  requests to God. and the peace of god, which Transcends all understanding, will guard yr hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.  Yes life is difficult, full of problems and filled with  stress.  And yes worry is a  natural tendency, but pray from yr heart and with all of yr heart , pray, pray, pray and like the colors in the arch of a  rainbow across the sky, God  gives us  several brilliant ways to win over worries, problems, pain, loss,  tears, ...... present yr request to God. pray worship God, we all have concern all true worship begins......and all worry ends! Go  Boldly before God'sThrone of Grace in times of need...... And with yr needs and ask the All- Powerful, and Almighty God of the Universe to guide, protect ,teach and give us Strength, to stand againts all add. Focus on God's Sovereign Power over every thing , and on His  purposes in everything cannot be a worrying heart. Neither can be a  heart of trust,  a heart that  is at rest,  so thank Him  profusely, present these  concern to Him ,  and leave them in the lap  of the Almighty........ Then the "Peace" of God comes to our rescue,  it will guard our hearts and our mind in Christ-Jesus. In other way "Jesus will make yr heart sit-down". And once yr heart sits God Peace keeps watch over it. Over yr fear, worry,  stress,  and fretting and the Battle agains any  worries  belongs to The-Lord....... These are the things i do and says for each trouble i encountered and they all worked for  me........ Peace to you!

Answer 8

nihilism will get rid of the disappointment factor.

i think you're asking two different questions:

1- how does one remain happy through bad things?

2- how does one remain peaceful through bad things?

1- this is a valley of the dolls approach to life

2- i suggest you look at the book "the tao te ching"

bad things happen, that's the way life is.  if you are unable to cope with misery, failure, pain, death, disappointment, regret, etc, you will lead a very miserable life.

whether you read the tao te ching or not, i suggest you at least get a handle on proust

Answer 9

..That is called "Art of Living"..and I am also  looking for Fine answers in your question..!

Answer 10

the answer is say no to self pity. sometimes i realize that i am mulling over someone not liking me and i realize that i am feeling sorry for myself.

self pity can be either of these:

validating a wrong someone has committed against you

seeking attention

feeling sorry for yourself because doing so is easier than trying to change your current situation and being a happier person

the feeling of self pity is addictive and comforting because you enter your own little cozy world

figure out why you are pitying yourself. i understand that grief can overwhelm us and so we become sad, but this should be the extent of your sadness. do not get upset over things you cant change. and btw, just because you shouldnt mull over your problems, doe snot mean people are not wrong for hurting you, because they shouldnt want you to be genuinely upset for a moment, even if you can overcome feelings of hurt.