How to respond to an email from an acquaintance ?

Question

This lady I know just emailed me that her husband's father died. She is more like an acquaintance than a friend. I met her volunteering at a farmer's market two years ago and since then, I see her once a week at the farmer's market, we usually chat for 5-10 minutes. I met her husband once but never really talked to him. She invited me to the shiva (it's an open house for Jewish people - they invite friends and family to their house couple days after the funeral - it's to pay respect and to mourn).

I think I will probably attend the shiva (she just asked to stop by if I wanted, no pressure) but I'm not sure yet.

Help me write an email back to her. I have writer's block! So far I started with "I'm sorry to hear about Mike's father".

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear about your husband, I know how much you meant to each other. It was kind of you to think of me and I will pay my respects in person when I attend the shiva.

It's better to refer to her husband than to 'Mike's father' because she seems to be the primary contact - you only met the husband once and haven't even mentioned Mike, so direct your condolences to her.  

Answer 2

you could say something like, i am terribly sorry to her about your family's loss. of course i will come to the shiva. thank you and once again im sorry. i wish the best for you and your family through these tough times

Answer 3

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you for letting me know, and inviting me to take part in this special occasion. I am honored to be included. I will see you on....

Sincerely.....