How to save my relationship?

Question

4 years ago I lost the love of my life because I wouldn't have children.

The pain from losing him has NEVER left me. Now, my new love has decided that he wants children more than anything now. I would totally die if I lost this man too, I cant go through that pain again. How can I get around this?

Answer 1

I would think about having children, marry him, and enjoy your life! Children are a blessing from the Lord, the fruit of the womb is His reward...

Answer 2

why you say that?>

im passing somethink like that too

if you mena that you cant have cause you have a problem i must say to you that now days ''things are changing & we must not lose our faith''

tell him about it cause is better he finds out now than to find after......

if he loves you then he will be next to you

Answer 3

Truly,,,,, children are the most important gift of God.

If youre not having baby. why dont you try test tube baby.

if you canot why dont both of you sit together and share your openions and adobt a kid.

there are planty of kids need love of parents.

you'll be happy making a kid happy and making his/her life.

you cant have children so other have children and left them away. you can be their parents.

if he is not understanding this. (if i were you) i wouldn't feel any thing bad leaving this man. bcoz. the one dont understand the need of humanity cannot love anyone.

I feel sorry for you. Pray to your God as imposible things can be done by prayers.

I pray for you too "May God Give You The Happiness Of your life and Give you Planty of kids"

Answer 4

talk to him. try to xplain the reasons why u don't want a child. listen to him as to why he wants a child. then decide

Answer 5

I think it's important when you first get together with someone, to lay your cards on the table.  Let them know what you want and don't want out of a relationship.

I guess it's hard if at first you both agree not to have children, then the other changes their mind.

Think about what's important to you.  If it's important for you not to have kids, then one day you will find someone who truly feels the same and this won't be an issue.