I'm pregnant with my first child. My sister in law is really persistent about giving me all of her old children's things- crib, mattress, clothes, etc. It is a sweet gesture, but to put it nicely, these things are "worn" (they've been through 2 kids). I've filled out a registry, and think that I'll be able to get most of the things that my husband and I have chosen for our new nursery. I feel like it's rude to decline, but I don't want to take on her stuff for two reasons- 1) I don't want to offend her if she notices we don't use her stuff and 2) I don't feel like driving to the junkyard to discard of the things we don't want.
Any tactful suggestions- I know she's just trying to be helpful and generous...
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