How to spice things up in the bedroom?

Question

how can i spice things up with my husband with out coming across as if i been taking classes from a porno star.

i do do the romantic dinners and candle thing but i want some fresh ideas can anyone help a little

Answer 1

well what i do is in GA we have a s*x shop named star ship or inserection. i go there and i get body oils and handcuffs and a little more extra toys he can use on me. i wear lingerie alot as well so try some of these ideas.

Answer 2

Find an adult s*x toy store and take him on a shopping trip.  I'm sure he'll find something in the store to play with!

Answer 3

I take it that you have children and things have gotten a little stale/boring.  You can spice it up by making reservations at a nice bed and breakfast (one night will do).  Leave late in the afternoon.  Have some drinks together, followed by a nice massage for both of you and whatever else happens and then, clean up, and go out for a nice dinner, come back, take in a movie or listen to some nice soothing music and go have some fun in bed.  Good idea for me too

Answer 4

Deep tissue massages to nice soft music is always nice. If you're looking for something sensual rather than sexual.

Answer 5

Early bed time and cute lingerie.  simple and men love lingerie.  A pretty and long nightie.  

Answer 6

The answer to that is so long...ultimately the thing you have to realize is that here are no right or wrong answers, just things you haven't tried yet.  You can spice things up with role playing, some bondage, lingerie, toys, books, videos, etc...  You just have to try things and determine what works best for your relationship.

Answer 7

Romantic dinners are good, but don't forget the spice!  You gotta get dressed up!  Next time, while you're getting dinner ready, take a long bubble bath, shave real smooth, then do your hair and make up.  Heavy on the red lipstick!

Then put on a black garter belt and matching push up bra.  Wear black or nude seamed stockings and really tall black pumps.  The sight of your bare tushy in the garter belt may ruin his appetite though.  Don't forget the perfume.  If you're feeling dramatic, add a string of pearls--(you can play with them later) and a pair of long black theater gloves!  Very hot!

Answer 8

edible massage oils

candle lit room

steamy spa

have a steamy shower together

massaging each other etc

Answer 9

All of the above are correct....

Do what you are comfortable with but I gotta ask the question: "What is wrong with acting like you were taking classes from a p**n star?"

I'm sure he would love it if you did that...that's hot.

Answer 10

Rent a room in a hotel for a few hours.

Answer 11

go to the store, get some good fruit, whip cream and whatever else you want. Now, lay down and creat a human buffet on yourself, then when the mansalad is ready, call him in for dessert.

Answer 12

First, recognize that what is "spicy" to you is completely different for a man. Candlelight dinners float your boat but, trust me, he wants something more overtly s**y. Men are more visual and physical. Women are emotional.

Attend that dinner with no undies and half way through let him know. During dinner ask him what one act he would really like to try. Pretend if you have to, but act like the thought is turning you on. He'll want to skip dessert.  

Answer 13

Remember your audience.

Men don't care about dinner and candles.

Men prefer 4+ inch heels and a naughty mind.