How to stop a rumor? 10 pts?

Question

long story but because of the way i dress everyone thinks im g*y, but im not. now this girl i liked alot (my first crush actualy im 13) were friends with myself but i knew i could never get her and she was a honest good hearted person in short: perfect any way one day she asked if i was g*y, and to get out of pretending to like her i said yes (bad choice) we remained ok friends afterwards untill today when my best friend comes up to me and says "dude every ones saying you like (two guys both good friends) and that you told (my crush) that you were g*y) i never told any one else but her and not untill 7 months after she does this. i talked to one of the two guys they said i liked and he knew its not true - im sur ethe other guy will react the same way but how do i prove to people im not g*y! im starting high school next week and i dont want to begin high school like this! how to i convince people i told her because i was to shy to let her know i liked her? please help me im dying here

Answer 1

couldn't be me i would confront the girl and ask her why did she say that bullsh*t about you and then i would turn the whole school against her or i would just tell her to tell everybody that the rumor is not true.

Answer 2

ooh, cheesy freshman drama!

I don't think there is a way to stop this rumor, the best thing you can do is just act like it doesn't bother you and wait until it blows over..once people start to see that you don't give a c**p, they won't care either...

Also, don't say stuff if you don't mean it, and be really careful who you trust...

Answer 3

just **** someone in front of everyone lol

Answer 4

How to stop a rumor is easy! Just stop responding to it! They are only trying to get a reaction out of you, and once you quit responding the rumor will fade!

Answer 5

why would you say yes in the first place?

thats just so stupid.

like the stupidest thing ever.

no offense

but you have to start a rumor about someone else or make fun of someone else.

and i know i usually a nice person but middle school is a ******* contact sport so dont judge me.

its a dog eat dog world.

everyone was making fun of me so i made fun of this guy who's bi and wears tight jeans.

its the absolute only way  no matter what anyone says.

seriously im not proud but its the only way.

because if you dont, nobody will EVER forget

Answer 6

Do not lie about being g*y.  People that are actually g*y have suffered terribly for being g*y.  Tell your friend the truth.  The bible says, "If you shall know the truth, the truth will set you free."  Of course, having an actual girlfriend show might reduce the rumor.  But remember, you can't control other people.  You can only be honest from here on out.

Answer 7

Come clean.  Come 100% clean.  Tell everyone that you did it to make *girl* think you didn't like her.  Though I don't think that shes a good person to like because she totally betrayed you..... but... if that floats your boat then.....  

Answer 8

Ahhh, middle school drama.

Just tell your friend the truth. I know it seems difficult, but I told the woman I'm married to that I had a crush on her when I was your age, 11 years ago. You should always confront a rumor at the source.

Best of luck.

Answer 9

that was middle schoool...

join a sport, and try to show of to her

and why are you putting this in the g*y section of yahoo answers???

Answer 10

start a bigger rumor to get everyone to focus on it,

Answer 11

just don't feed into it any time anyone brings it up just tell them no and pretend like the very thought of it is ridiculous (act as if the thought had never even crossed your mind and it's a silly thing to even bring up) it'll be gone soon once you get to HS there will be plenty of other things people will focus their attention on.

2 points of advice:

1. everyone is too busy being consumed with what people think of them to think about you

2. women don't really know what they want from a guy it is your job to show them why they want you

Answer 12

map quest their house and shoot them up.