How to stop it my girlfriend making pre-marital s*x?

Question

my girlfriend gets horny fast, i need to be responsible enough to control her, im older than her and i know whats right and wrong, but shes the type of person that she should get what she wants, sometimes she wants to have s*x without condoms, but im to scared to, sometimes even if i have condoms.

what should i tell her that wont make her mad? i tried stopping her but enters cold war or etc

Answer 1

Woah, there dude. I would back up there. Your girl sounds like a nympho, and like she's out of control. I'm afraid those are the hardest to control...but dude watch it, or you'll get her pregnant. DON'T have s*x without a condom unless she's on birth control. You tell her, "Hey lady, I'm not ready to be a daddy. So if you want it, you'll take it sheathed."

Answer 2

If you already are doing it, no sense in wasting words to telling you the harm & dangers; mental & physical. She will wind up pregnant soon, by you or another guy. She needs to be on the pill or a implant

Answer 3

Tell her it's with condoms or not at all.  Ask her if she really wants a baby????  My guess is the answer is no.  Best time to address this issue is while she IS NOT horny- you can't reason with a hormone filled girl.

And it is still premarital s*x with or without the condom-LOL

Answer 4

if i was you i would not even consider having unprotected s*x, because obvisously your girlfriends to controlling and she gets caught up in the moment (and we all no how easy that can happen) but its not worth it because it could result in a baby and you both arent ready for that are you? just sit down and talk to her and then make it up by having loads of s*x but safe s*x. good luck!!!

Answer 5

If you guys insist on making woopie before getting married, just know that that's how babies are made.  If she doesn't want to use a condom, say great...I've never heard of a guy who prefers them...just tell her she needs to take care of the birth control some other way.  There are lots of options, pill, diaphram, IUD, spermicide...etc...

If you really would like to hold off until you are married perhaps think of taking her to church with you.  Explain to you that it is important to wait.  Then plan the date for as soon as possible if you know marriage is the direction you guys are heading.  Also make sure that dates are in public places where it's inappropriate to be so intamate...Good luck.

Answer 6

So, you don't believe in ANY s*x before marriage? Good for you! Explain that you love her so much and someday you would like to marry her (only tell her if this is true) and just practice safe s*x, there are other ways to "do it" without actually "doing it".