How to stop karma?

Question

i believe i got karma i was mean to my ex when we broke up he would come to me for help i would deny him and lead him on and didnt care that he would cry for me everynight

now im getting it back with a recent ex hes denying me and not caring that i cry everynight over him and he knows it and is ignoring me

please help

Answer 1

what comes around, goes around. you played your ex, now you're getting played yourself. doesn't feel good when people play with your emotions does it? consider this a lesson learned. maybe next time you will be nicer to your boyfriends/ex-boyfriends.

Answer 2

Jamesar is right to a point, although that is more or less what karma is.  It can be more accurately summed up be Newton's third law of motion.  This is the equal/opposite reaction to your actions.

It is not a case of the universe punishing you for having done something bad, it is far simpler than that.  The same frame of mind that led you to mistreat your former boyfriend has led you to a boyfriend that has mistreated you.  The two events are unrelated outside the fact that it was the same aspect of your personality that led you to both places.

Now you see were you stand, firstly try to cope with your present situation, then try to address the underlying issue, and move forward with a more positive approach toward you fellow man.  Try to learn from the lesson you have been fortunate enough to encounter.

Answer 3

d**n hate to say it..but you probably deserve it. Do something good for someone though. Thats how you can redeem yourself.

Answer 4

You can't stop karma, good or bad catching up with you, its going to happen, therefore this is the reason why you should only project good into the world. I have witness karma good and bad catching up with people in the end and its amazing how it gets that person every time.

Answer 5

thats not karma! thats justice.

you caused him pain after you broke up with him by leading him on and couldnt care less about his feelings. now the same thing is happening to you and what? your expecting tea and sympathy from him? expecting that he will let bygones be bygones?

the way you can get rid of this so-called karma is to apologise for causing him pain. although, by the sounds of things, i will not expect a happy ending.

you brought this on yourself. deal with it.

you can start thumbs-downing now!

Answer 6

stop believing in karma it does not exist like luck and fate.

GBU

Answer 7

Karma--it's everywhere you're going to be.

Answer 8

I believe in EXISTENIALISM.... which involves the belief that everything is cause and effect.... that fate does not exist.... unless these people have a "secret conspiracy against you" then you should just accept that **** happens

Answer 9

Stop doing what youre doing to make it happen

or just simply dont believe it.

Answer 10

Lessons sometimes come at us hard to make sure we get it. If I were you, I would contact my old boyfriend and apologize to him on every level. If you hurt, for the hurt you caused him and not because of what you are going through with the new guy. Great spiritual growth can come about for you and for him. But if you don't feel true empathy for your 1st boyfriend and only do it to try to get out of your own karma I doubt it will help.

Answer 11

im affraid that if you believe karma has caught up with you than you cant run from it. just ride it threw- itll be over soon and just think about the concequences of your actions later down the line. mostly just follow your heart and your intuition- everything happens for a reason even if the reason is that the hurt teaches you something and helps you grow. :) good luck and Blessed Be

Answer 12

To get over Karma, stop believing in it.

You're Ex is a di#k so, stop crying over him, you know he doesn't care if you do, so why should you, bets thing to do, is show him that you don't care about him either.

You have given him all the power, you're broken up, yet he still controls you!

Answer 13

Karma doesn't affect you until your next lifetime. That's not karma. That's the universe kicking you in the ***.

Answer 14

stop being a jerk.

Answer 15

That isn't karma, the problem is you have gone after someone who is just like you, who ignores people who care for them. The good thing is is that you rocognise the error of your behaviour and hopefully, will not do this to anybody else.

Answer 16

by believing in buddhism.

Answer 17

You can't stop it, you are getting exactly what you deserve.  You get back what you put out.