How to stop missing someone you will never see again?

Question

I miss him very much but I will never see him again..he's bad for me..he's not a good person for me.

I got rid of everything that reminds me of him..all pictures, music, clothes...EVERYTHING.

But small things remind me of him...everyday.

I need to stop this!

I need help, anyone give some advice?

Answer 1

I have had that feeling when my dad passed away 5 years ago. I mean, I didn't get rid of his stuff, but I do miss him everyday and I'll never see him again.

It's not like I'm crying all day because I miss him, but when someone is talking about cancer, or saying how he/she loves his/her dad, then yes, I think about him.

I've heard many people say I needed help to process it all, but I've convinced myself of the fact that I'll just have to face reality and live on. It was hard, though. Took me a lot of time.

Good luck!! You can always email me if you wanna talk.

Answer 2

I know the feeling, but time is a great healer.

Answer 3

I have been like that for almost 2 years, it doesn't go away, you just learn to live with it.

Answer 4

Take a piece of paper and scrible out all things that you ahte about him.

Burn his picture!

Think how much pain that damned azz caused you!

And then go to a cinema and have fun with your friends :D get occupied.

Answer 5

I know how that feels. It goes away over time. What I did was just hang with friends, was constantly busy I barely had time to breathe! jk jk, sports, anything! i got over him in about a week to a week and a half. I was ALWAYS busy so I couldnt think bout him. The pain goes away over time. Just keep yourself so busyor enough so you dont think bout him!

Answer 6

just try tp keep busy and hang out w/ friends and stuff and before u kno it u wont even kno who he was.