How to stop my husband from being porno addict when he gots EVERYTHING at hom and happy with it? help!?

Question

How to stop my husband from being porno addict when he gots EVERYTHING at hom and happy with it? help!?

Answer 1

You can't stop an addict.  They have to choose to either stop or get help.  Period.

Answer 2

I wouldn't worry about it unless he starts trying to get with other women. Lots of men watch p**n, women too join him maybe he will talk about why he likes it so much

Answer 3

Addict is a clinical term.  Also, its a guy thing and you need to grow up.

Answer 4

You must not being doing something for him.

If you want me to, I can go into more graphic detail with you on what you can do to get him to stop watching p**n.  

Answer 5

Make lots and lots of short s*x tapes with various themes, maybe some simple plots, exciting twists and outrageous costumes and then consolodate them into one long well orchastrated Cd/DVD... Avoid screen wipes and distorted scene transitions.

Watch some of his favourite movies on your own time and use them to help guide your wardrobe.

A couples counciler is always a good idea, but be sure to also ask the doctor how to improve your preformance.

Answer 6

watch with him.  ;\

Answer 7

If he's addicted you cant change it, he needs to get help from a doctor!

Answer 8

Have the wisdom to recognize the things that you cannot control, and the courage to change the things that you can.    Addiction is not a process that you can control.    The only thing you can control is the extent to which you interact with someone whose behavior is offensive to you.

Answer 9

Men are visual. Women are physical. Unless he is out there getting physical with another woman, let him have his visual fun. It's just p**n.  

Answer 10

Maybe that IS what keeps him at home and happy , maybe it just gives him ideas. Are you happy with him?  

Answer 11

be like dude why do you need like recorded s*x when there is real fornication options right infront of you?

lol

i wish i could help you

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♥

- rianna™

Answer 12

make one with him or several, that way he is watching you and not some random bimbo

Answer 13

here's an idea:

watch his p**n when he's not home and make a vido for him.

or with him.

just don't post it on the internet with blurring out your faces.

haha.

Answer 14

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=hGFFJFoIoQ...

Answer 15

p**n is addicting for some and they can't jump start their own love making without using it as an aid. If you are having to experience this, it is a problem. Too much of anything is a problem.  

Answer 16

If he is truly an addict then he needs to get help like any other addict, if he just watches it sometimes and you are blowing it out of proportion because you are insecure then you should get over it. If he is watching it 24/7 and spending tons of cash on porno sites and things of that nature than that would probably be an addiction or he is seriously lacking something at home. So first figure out if it is a legitimate addiction to p**n because otherwise he is just being a normal guy.

Answer 17

If he is a true p**n addict, he needs help.

A peek here and there does not bother me but if it was NONSTOP, I would be demanding therapy or else.

Below is a link for s*x Addicts Anonymous.

Good luck.

Answer 18

you have to ask why he is on the p**n so much. My hubby has his p**n but that's for times that he really needs the relief and I'm not there or he just wants it done and not have to go through the whole process. (He does alone time when he needs to relax or destress) If you jump him about it he will just hide it. that's what happened the first time I found my husbands p**n before we were married and was teasing him about some of it so he decided to hide it cause he thought I was jealous. We had a talk and now his p**n is in a file I can get to. He might just need alone time. But you need to have an open conversation with him without being judgmental.  

Answer 19

Any addiction is just that an addiction.  There are those that merely exchange one addiction for another, although it may be at least a healthier one. First you need to find out if "he" wants to stop.  If he really does, then he needs to be honest with you of any hiding areas or tricks to view.  Let him impose ways on himself to stop. There are a lot of sites that offer help, whether it be 7-14-21-28 days etc.  The reality is it will take as long as it does, be it 7 days a year or ten.  The important thing is that he starts.  Each day is a new beginning.  Develop a more intimate relationship with your partner.   Here's a site with 5 steps that I personally believe are realistic and will offer the best hope.  If you have a setback, start again, until "you" have control of your own life.  

Answer 20

Really? Everything?

Check out what he is looking at.

Maybe it is bdsm, and not just furry handcuffs but painful torture including candle wax and needles. Do you do that? Can you handle that?

Maybe it is girls of other race... can you do threesome?

You don't know if he is happy, just because you are, doesn't mean he is satisfied with you.

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Answer 21

It depends.If he is looking all the time, he made need counseling. If its occasional, dont worry about it. It doesnt mean you arent desirable or that he is going to cheat

Answer 22

give up...you can't make a man stop watching p**n.  if he is happy and you 2 having s*x and the p**n is NOT interferring with your s*x life, i don't see that there is a problem.  watching p**n for men (& LOTS of women) myself included, is very very very normal

Answer 23

he cant be that happy

Answer 24

there is nothin you could do about it, just wait until he gets bored of watchin p**n

Answer 25

Its just porno. Let the man be woman.

And don't listen to these fem-n**i relationship control crazy females, You will do your own head in.

Answer 26

If you have a h ealthy happy marriage then what is the problem with him reading/watching porno?  My husband doesn't read/watch p**n. But, if he did it wouldn't be a big deal.  I know he loves me

Answer 27

I think you should be more stick with him. He can't have both he as to choose one. I hoping he would lean more towards you then p**n. If he can't choose between you and p**n then you have to make the decision and its not your fault his has fallen to something he can't control anymore. Does he know what he is doing is wrong. He doesn't see s*x from a healthy point of view its been separeated from love.

You have to be strong.

Answer 28

he don't gots evrything or he woodnt be lookin

Answer 29

If YOU think he is happy with what he gets at home..then ask..why does he have the desire to get it elsewhere..

I think you are in denial

Answer 30

i dont think he's the one with the problem...the problem is youre insecure that he likes watching other women online instead of just being satisfied with you...theres nothing wrong with people watching p**n...

why dont you try joining him...its actually kinda hot.