How to stop this ?!?!?

Question

I'm going to be 16 in a short amount of time ( 3 Months ) I'm obviously 15 now and this whole summer ive had no freedom all my other friends get to stay out until 12 at parties etc. alot of people want me at parties too , but my mom makes me come home early like 9:30 and if shes in a good mood 10. ive gotten in trouble for drinking in the past and not going to lie i still do drink but not as much and i havent really got caught doing it again.Also I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend , I'm just sick of the strictness how do i get my mom to loosen up! i cant stand this anymore

Answer 1

You're 15...you

A.) Have no business drinking alcohol yet.

B.) Should NOT be out past ten at parties

C.) The boyfriend rule is a bit strict, but given that you've been caught being irresponsible before, I can't blame your mom for trying to protect you.

You can't stand it anymore? You're being a bit of a brat. There are tons of kids who are in much much worse situations than you with parents who don't care about them at all.

Be grateful that your mom cares enough about you to set rules like this, you'll realize how she feels once you have your own children.

Grow up.

Then maybe you can get some more "reasonable" rules.

And no, I'm not a mother yet. I'm 20 years old and still young myself. I just know how to be mature about situations.

Answer 2

Tell her your going to be sixteen in a few months and you need to have a later curfew, also tell her she needs to have a bit more trust for you. But she wont be able to trust you if you are drinking behind her back. Don't go to her and be like" can I stay out till 12 all my friends are" or don't be like" can I have a boyfriend all of my friends do". I understand you will probably want to say that cause I'm 14 and I always want to say that to my dad but he says no boyfriend till your 16 and a half for now your only aloud a "special friend". But anyways. If she keeps saying "no" you have to keep asking you have to make her believe in you trust me keep it up, you have to gain her trust again it won't come over night. Try hard and try to stop drinking and be more responsible and you will be out till maybe even 1:00 in no time.

Good luck

Hope this helped.

Answer 3

my moms the same way too..

but not about the boyfriend thing..

she just thought i didn't want a boyfriend.

lol

but um.. you can't really do anything about it..just go with it. maybe you could have a conversation with her to extend your curfew to like.. 11?

good luck =]

Answer 4

why are you complaining???  you are the one that messed up and now you are paying the price....... too bad! you did it to yourself!!!

Answer 5

your parents a re responsible for you until you turn 18 and you need to abide by their rules until you move out.  seems to me that they care about you and maybe some of your friends parents don't about them?  chill out and be happy that you are allowed to have a boy friend and go out at 15.  the older you get the more freedoms you will have.  what about curfew in your own?  My town has one and its 10pm on week nights and 11-12 on weekends if you are not 18 and the cops will pick you up and enforce it here.