How to straigten my mom up w/o involving police?

Question

If you've read my question before this...well, I was researching about stuff like this and just needed reassurance. It's not the first time my mom has left me alone when my dad was drinking. She threatens me also and altho when she gets physical its not that bad, she distances herself from me and calls me hideous names. I've tried to tell her to straighten up a LOT of times, but has never changed. How can I tell her to SERIOUSLY start being a better mom? she will NOT listen, and feel like I have to call higher authority? But if I ask the police to talk to her, won't the court get involved, CPS, all that huge mess???

A girl even said that I could get an officer to talk to my dad to not touch me again, w/o having things charged against him?

I want higher authority WITHOUT the huge government mess, help!!!

Answer 1

Dr Phil can help.  

Answer 2

You can't. You are being extremely immature even though you think you are acting like a big girl by not wanting the police involved. If someone is abusing you physically and emotional your number one priority should be to call the police. When you are older will you put up with this if your husband does it? What if your husband hits your children? Are you going to stand by and say that it isn't that bad today there is only one bruise? Grow up and nip this in the bud. Your father should be in jail and if your mother has hit you any other place other than your *** she should be too.

Answer 3

Yes if you call the cops they will most likely have cps involved. But why wouldn't you want that. If you are getting treated badly than i would just call the cops and have cps involved if they take you from them wouldn't you be alot happier. And find your mom later maybe that will teach her to straiten up. I'm really sorry your parents treat you like that you do have to find something to do about it. Cuz it could get worse what if they got really mad and tried to kill you? You never know.  I hope everything gets better for you.  

Answer 4

How old are you??? depending hopefully you dont have long until you are 18 your mom will not change unless she wants to and for your dad hitting you, i would call the cops you dont need to take that, thats your father and he should never lay a hand on you even if you dont think its that bad, it must be bad enough for you to say something , If i was you i would want CPS to get involved maybe it would open your parents eyes and show them what they are really doing to their daughter. Good luck i hope everything works out for you god bless

Answer 5

i would try gettinng someone with a police friend to come and talk to them without getting them in trouble.

actually , you should scare them by sending them to jail for a night.

it will work i promise.

and i answered your question before too.

Answer 6

She sounds very stubborn. Unfortunately, you cannot do anything, only she can change herself. But what you can do is encourage her to make the right choices. And if that fails, well, A) she just has issues B) She needs to sit down and talk to someone C) She needs to be straightened out by authorities. If it gets serious, restraining orders are always an option.

Answer 7

Unfortunately, you cannot have a higher authority in this case without involving the government in some way.

You need to call the police, they can just talk to your mom.  They won't necessarily get courts involved unless they see the need.

If she won't listen to you, maybe she will listen to the police...if it gets worse, you need to find someplace else to live.

Answer 8

Ok if u dnt want to get higher authority involved den u need to get sombodi to talk to both of your parents.  If I were u i wudnt want to suffer with that, you probably dnt even deserve it.  But just do whats best for you.  But u need to get it situated now before it gets worst!