How to support a best friend(brother) who get bad mark in thanwi amaa?

Question

He is soo dissapointed that he doesn't even want to talk to anyone:(

PS :he is in secondry two

Answer 1

no one should blame him.

he did his best and got what God has allowed him.

God knows what is best for us .

he will go to the Faculty that best suits his abilities .

tell him to thank God .

he should pray God to open for him what can be suitable for him.

Answer 2

what to say after noha's words ?

that's what i wanted to say

Answer 3

i had the same problem twice ; once with my best friend & another with my dear cousin

try to remind him that "Allah knows best ... w msh fe 7d 3aref el 7'eir feen

maybe he wanted to get high marks to join a college "he thinks" will be the best for him ,but Allah knows he won't succeed in it ,so HE wanted to direct him to another college where he can be a successful person .

so, he has to have faith in Allah's choice ; knowing that's the best for him ; but Allah's wisdom is beyond our understanding.

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم " و عسي أن تكرهوا شيئا و هو خير لكم .. و عسي أن تحبوا شيئا و هو شر لكم ... و الله يعلم و أنتم لا تعلمون" صدق الله العظيم

just know that it'll take some time ; after a week or so ....  try hard to let them go out of home ... go out together ... don't mention the results at all ,by any means .. don't mention for example "m3lesh ...el sana el gaya te3awadha" w keda .... this could have been said in the first two days or so ... but no need to say so again & again every now & then ..... that way he won't get the whole thing out of his mind

then, try to make him enjoy his vacation to the full ... to be freshly ready for 3rd year whose privat lessons will probably start wihtin a few weeks ......

Answer 4

tell him he is not alone

tell him that life will never stop at sanawya 3ama

my sister got 88 3elmy 3eloom and my father sent her to gam3a khasa busness and she became resarch assistant (mo3eeda) and she is making master degree in cairo unversty and she is happy in her career life and also many banks wanted her to work in that

Answer 5

look thats his effort and he must be proud of it may be if he work harder next year he will get better rank

noha say it all

Answer 6

gab kam ya3ney!

tell him mesh far2a we mate3rafsh el kheer feen!