How to survive unsuccessful love?

Question

My boyfriend fooled me with other girls. He met them, chat with them, emailed them, wrote a lot sms messages. He didn't love them, he loved me, carried me, but I couldn't carry his wrong habit with myself any more longer. It was too hurtful, and I cried a lot for him, because I loved him too much. 2 weeks ago I told him to chose me and live with me or them and separate with me. He chose to live separately, but continue friendship. It was not o.k. for me, I needed him too much, I loved him too much to live separately. So I thought the best way should be leave him and let him think. But even after I left him, he felt pain inside his heart and still doesn't write me any messages. He even doesn't try to get me back. I thought I was his life target, and I feel so hurtful these days, seems I even cant think anything more but him, I can't breath, I don't want to listen any men around and I miss him too much to live here alone. I won't seek him, because I left him myself. But how to live with this pain inside when he doesn't seek me after 2.5 years friendship?

Answer 1

You are talking of the incessant pain in the heart.  It took me nearly 7 years to get over my ex-wife.

Allow time to carry on its magic.  Time will heal all wounds.

Move away from the place where you live, a change over in surroundings will calm you quite a lot.

Don't say to yourself, don't think about him, that way, you will always dwell in the past, that is a very dangerous symptom.

Go out, mingle with others, create new relationships.  Not all people are like him.

Just allow time to do its work.

good luck and god bless

Answer 2

.,well,..

.,if your relationship with your bf

does not working anymore,

.,then,

.,it will be better for the both of you to take a rest..

.,ask him a little time to think about what's the better for you

and for him..

.,no communication,

.,and when the time comes that you ready to confront him,

.,then,

.,talk to him..

.,and tell him what's the best thing to do..