I'm an adult adoptee (34 yrs old), and I have been in contact with my birthmother since I was 22. I've known all my life about the details of my adoption, and of my birthparents, and regular contact/info swapping was facillitated by my parents.
Recently however, my birthmother has started to intrude big time on my life, she is beginning to insist on me calling her "Mom", which I've never really wanted to do, but also insisting that I stop calling my parents Mom and Dad.
We have six children altogether (1 adopted, 2 fostered), and she is only willing to spend time with our 3 bio kids.
There are other issues also, but you get the picture. I'm happy for her to be in my life, always have been, so please no answers about unresolved adoptee issues!
What can I do/say to her?
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