How to talk to this guy? 10 POINTS?

Question

How do i talk to a guy that I sit next to in class that seems quiet? I've heard that he likes the same music as me...but I'm at a loss at how to start conversation. I kind of like him..so that makes it even more difficult!

It would help if some badass loner guys could answer this question, thats what his personality comes off to me as, so insight on to how he would feel would be really helpful

Answer 1

Say............'Hey, do you like that song by.....?' Or ask him for an answer or some help on your homework.

Answer 2

act like a r****d.. like not exactly r****d. jst like when urr allowed to talk like jstt say like supp 'name'. and like be outgoing come on. if u dn't say anything to himm then whats the point of liking him? [: and u could like jst be yourself and say like hi or something butt thats to.. lame to me [: haha iff i were u i'dd jst like do something to get his attention like poke him during class and when he looks at u jst smile and say heyy! or something.. i dn't know about what type of person u are that thats meee [: lmao

andd write notes iff ur to scared to even say a word to him lmao.

Answer 3

Not sure about bad-***, but I'm definitely a loner. If this guy is anything like me, just try talking to him, introduce yourself some time. Try to find whatever interests him and talk about it. His remarks might seem direct, and straight to the point, but that is usually just because your new person in his life. He will gradually warm up to you as you continue talking to him.

Answer 4

What is with these younger ladies talking to the guys. This is not the design it is not what you have to offer him to impress him but what he has for you. If you are in middle or high school this concept does not apply.If you have got to go to leaps and bounds to get his attention it is not worth it. Take care of you and allow a GOOD guy to notice YOU!

Answer 5

Start off with a hello, if you can't get that far, another girl will start dating him.

Answer 6

talk about music............. if both like the same......... that will be awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

If he is wearing a band tshirt that you happen to like one day, say something like "Oh! I love them!" Then he will say "Thanks" or something, then ask what songs he likes by them. Then maybe asks if he plays an instruement and comment on things he says. Keep asking him questions.

Answer 8

tell him you need help with some homework

Answer 9

ask him for the homework

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Answer 10

You say you may have the same taste in music, ask him!  

Answer 11

You could start by saying hi. How can you "kind of like him" if you've never spoken to him?

Answer 12

Just ask him a question about class work and then let the rest flow.  Ask questions.

Answer 13

maybe you should try to start a conversation about music or even introduce yourself to him and see how it goes from there

Answer 14

ask in front of him do like this band and he might iterven and might get a conversation going

Answer 15

Sounds a lot like me. If hes a music person just say Hey, I heard your into good music what do you like? or something. That's how my girlfriend won me over was her great taste in music.

Answer 16

If he's anything like me, I would love it if a girl would just talk to me about something that i enjoyed. If you do like the same music then you can ask him what bands he likes or something along that line. Good luck.

Answer 17

ok im kinda like that so......just ask him for help with a problem or something or come off as nice and thougthful instead of strong and pushy.......he will communnicate better that way

Answer 18

well I'm not a bad *** boy, but i am a girl..LOL...but ok, 1st build up some confidence and just talk! or u can buy a sticker of a band or grop or whatever it is u both like in music and put it on where he'll see it fur sure and wait and see if he starts talkin to you about it. dont wait to long to talk to him cuz it is school and who know who might snatch him right under ur noes.

Answer 19

why dont you talk to him after class before he leave's class ask him about somthing ask him if he wanted to hang out.

Answer 20

Music is the easiest back door conversation.  All you have to do is say, "Oh you listen to so and so, me too.  You have the so and so CD?"  Something simple like that.  

Answer 21

Start off by maybe saying hi and bye everytime you enter and leave the classroom so that way you want to start talking to him it doesn't look like you're desperate. Then after a couple of days passed throw in the regular such as, do you like this class, can I borrow a pencil etc. Just wing it.

Answer 22

im not a badass loner guy, but this might help. i have experience with one of them. dont come bold, just relax and make light conferstaions about the class etc. something a friend might say. than see where it goes.

GoodLuck

Answer 23

Show you are interested by asking questions about him.  

Answer 24

Well my experience with "baddass loner" types is they think its cool to be without friends and hating the world, hence being a loner. So start talking about how you hate people since obviously thats his "thing".

Answer 25

well i'm ur badass guy-- jus ask him wat kinda muzik he likez--- den say u noe wat i like?? den say u- lmao...jk but seriously jus ask if he heard dis song from dis person an go 4rm dere

Answer 26

Talk to him about music since you both like that.. and also ask him

"What do you do for fun"

"Do you have a girlfriend"

"Whats your fav food"

"Future plans"

I could go on and on just think it through