How to talk with an abusive dad ?

Question

my dad is abusive , I don't know how to talk with him , Let's see :

He's so stubborn ,

he twists my words ,

he gets angry and he's abusive .

so I don't know how to talk with him , I appreciate the help , Thank you .

Answer 1

I'd forget about trying to talk with him.

I have a very abusive father, I never have anything to talk to him about, I used to care and would try to improve communication, but usually he wouldn't care what I had to say, I'd feel uncomfortable, or anger him.. Sometimes it's just hopeless.

Answer 2

Yeah I had one of those.

He used to beat sh*t out of me

when I was little because he enjoyed it.

I never talked to him, and left home to

work at friends and relatives' farms when

I was 8. When he was 53 he was dying

of cancer, (he smoked heavy) and guess

who took care of him? But we never talked

then either. I held his hand when he died

and my only thought was "Whew, man am

I ever glad THAT'S over!"

He never wanted me, always hated me, so

with someone like that it's impossible to

have any communication. You just make

them somewhat "happy" by getting out of

their life, (and getting them out of yours).  

Answer 3

I got a bad dad tooz. 'cept he uses phychological sh*t. Like says ur a accident, then saying he loves you, then he ur a ******. I HATE HIM! JUst say you hate him, keep a weapon close, and say what you need to.