How to tell boyfriend?

Question

Hey guys!

So, last night I was at my boyfriend's house. (We're both16)

We were in his basement watching a movie, and he started to kiss me.

But then, he grabbed my leg, and hooked it around him, and then flipped over so that he was on top of me.

He contined kissing me, and his hands started to go up the sides of my shirt.

I was starting to feel uncomfortable, and so I grabbed his hands, and put them at his sides, and said "Watch it"

I think he understood he went too far.

but my question is, how can I confront him that I wasn't comfortable?

I plan on saving myself until marriage, and he already knows that we aren't going to have s*x.

Answer 1

Not trying to be mean but what it sounds like to me is that's all he want to do to you is have s*x. Now don't feel bad because it happens to most girls but. Good thing you want to wait until you get marry but just tell him how you really feel. And you not ready to have s*x right now and if he gets mad then you should not be with him at all. because you no what he already want.

Answer 2

You THINK he understood he went too far?  He should be crystal clear on that, at this point!

Sounds like you need to stay out of his basement!

Answer 3

I think he already understand it pretty well.  If he tries again, THEN talk to him.  If he does, he has issues.

Answer 4

say exactly that sit down and talk to him,tell him your views on things and make sure he fully understands what you mean and he is also fully aware of your limits.

Answer 5

Simply tell him that you're not ready for s*x. He should be able to respect that.

Answer 6

Good for you.I hope you save yourself for marriage.That's very important this day and age.You need to talk to him in private and let him know that you didn't like what happened and it better not happen again.Be very firm with him and all the guys you may date until you get married.Let them know from the get go and there should be no problems.If there is then don't go out with them again.Guys that age only think about s*x and it's rough on girls,just don't give in to them.

Answer 7

Good for you for saving yourself until mariage!

The next time you guys are hanging out, just casually bring it up that you still plan on saving yourself so he has to watch what he does.

Good Luck

Answer 8

Just inform him about you saving yourself until marriage (if you have not already done so) and if he cannot accept that then he is not worth being with. If anything else and you do not want to go that far into the reason behind not having s*x, just tell him that you do not want to...

Answer 9

i think all guys struggle with this.

maybe give him "Every Young Mans Battle" as a gift.

you seriously need to talk about it though, make sure he doesn't go that far if you don't want him to.

if he continues to do stuff like that break up with him.

but yeah, you and yerr boyfriend both should read that!

its a wonderful book!

Answer 10

You should bring up the subject, and tell him you dont feel comfortable with him doing that. and remind him that you're saving it for marriage :)

Answer 11

just say i wasnt comfortable with what you did last night

Answer 12

You go girl! It's nice to here a story from a girl that had self control and stood up for herself. Just tell him that you're young and not ready for s*x and that it's you that could get pregnant so he should respect you for waiting.

Answer 13

good choice!

just tell him how you feel.