How to tell my boyfriend I'm not recovered? ):?

Question

Well my boyfriend KNOWS that i used to be bulimic.

what he doesnt know is that i still am.

and i really feel like i should tell him. I'm worried he'll obsess over it or make him ashamed, or something. i dont know.

what should i say?

Answer 1

write him a letter...then seek help. Trust me it's a long long long road ahead if you don't get help now....

Answer 2

Tell your b/f the truth why lie this will always jump up and bite you in the a@@ every time and you think he will get mad because you still are bulimic, yea right he will most likely be pissed you lied to him more then you need to explain why you lied on top of why you are still acting bulimic  I understand this is a hard thing to get over and he may as well but you have to be honest with your self to get b/f to understand why you still do this. After this you may be able to help your self get over this and with your b/f s help if he stays with you. If he cares for you and wants to he will help you as much as possible. So best to fess up and be truthfully.Then go from there. good luck and I do belive this will work out great for you all the way around.

Answer 3

be honest and tell the truth. he'll not ashamed and i think he'll help you.

Answer 4

Just be honest with him, and pick a time when it is right and say, I know that you are aware that in the past I have had a problem with bulimia, but I need you to know that I am still having a problem with it.  He has absolutely no reason to feel ashamed.  He may be concerned for you, and want to try to help.  This would be a good thing.  Telling him is much better than trying to hide it from him...