How to turn him down in a better way?

Question

i've already told this guy friend of mine that i don't feel the same for him.. and i told him that i just hope to be friends with him.. He said he understand and will keep it as we were just friends but then he once and once again ask me out personally.. It's really comfortable being with him but i don't feel he is the one i am looking for.. What else should i say to him..?? It seems like he doesn't really take what i said to him.. i've already turn down another close friend of mine pretty badly..and it still hurts until now.. he said he won't pursue me right now after i told him i really don't want a relationship yet especially after hurting my close friend.. but then what he is doing now is different from what he said.. anyway.., I don't want to loose another friend if i could..

Answer 1

Think of how you would like to be rejected if you liked someone who didn't like you back!  No real good answer, huh?  I think that as a woman, you have to stand up for yourself & state the facts...  "When I'm ready to choose a guy to date, it will be my choice".