How to win him over??

Question

my best guy friend is in a complicating relationship with this girl but he said there not going out. and ive liked him for two years and he knows but he doesn't know that i still like him. but i would do anything for him. plus i think his "girlfriend" is using him cause she hates me and she knows that i like him, also that she makes him follow her everywhere. but anyway, me and him went out for lunch and he normaly has to ask for permission from her, but he didn't ask her and he biked from his house all the way to mine(which is 10 mins drive.) and then we drove up to get food. and then he wanted to pay. so how do i win over his heart?

Answer 1

it sounds like she is a jerk and he likes you but she is the kind of girl that if you don't worship her she will make life miserable for you so he can't break up with her! so all you have to do is some how get her to break it off with him or you could help him be the worst bf ever (only do the 2nd one if you KNOW he wants to break up with her)  

Answer 2

It doesn't really sound like she's using him.. what would she use him for? If she knows you like him, she probably just feels threatened by you.. being the reason why she doesn't like you. More often than not, girls become very territorial of their boyfriends.

I find it really pathetic how he has to 'ask permission'. How old are you, just out of curiosity?

Just let him know where you stand (tell him you care about him) then the balls in his court, and that's when he's either gotta break things off with his crazy girlfriend, and choose you OR he'll stay with her.

Be patient. Show that you're understanding of his situation and don't make him choose. You want him to WANT to choose. The more understanding you are, the better.

PS don't trash his girlfriend infront of him. guys dont like that.

good luck sweetie.

Answer 3

A guy wants a girl that will be his best friend in the world with benefits ALL THE TIME.