How to you pretend to be confident when you're not?

Question

Starting a new school...when I'm with people I don't know i tend to shut off all my personalities for fear of being too weird and stuff, so i just go kind of boring and plain and don't know what to say..so how do i pretend to not be shy...how do you fake confidence ?

Answer 1

hold your head high and dont be afraid to speak up when given the chance.

Answer 2

when you are new in a place no one knows enything about you .

   You  can be whoever or whatever you want and make everyone beleive that that is you .

  Pick your confidence and play it out as you would like it to be and if someone doesnt like it ,stand tall and just be you .

  everyone wants the world to be the way thay want it so why dont you do the same ?????

Answer 3

um don't fake it.....

just talk if its about weird sci fi stuff don't talk about it talk about things  like how weird a teacher is or how your old school was,but talk about it too much ppl will get bored from it also don't be clingy......people HATE that!!!

WELL THERES A START! good luck!

Answer 4

i forget that im not confident. haha, but i am outgoing. i think that is what blocks out my confidence level, i just keep talking. honestly im weird, im not confident about myself but i talk to any one and everyone and dont care what they think of me. i think its a self issue? dont you? i think i could be better in everyway, i just dont know how to improve. haha. hmmm... *ponders*

just talk to anyone about anything. who cares what they think you are bound to find somone in your school that has something in common. might i add, when you graduate, more than 1/2 the people you talk to will vanish into thin air. never to be heard from again.

Answer 5

How old are you? How were you raised? In other words do you have Brothers, & Sisters?. Did you go to public or Private School?. How good are you in School then & now?. Do you have any very close friend

or Friends now?.

You will have to stop talking about PRETENDING & PRETEND, positive people does not pretend, WE just do it, so it seems as if you have a lot to do to get your self to what you should be so I could not

help you this way, you will have to get some one who is close to you to help you. A relitive or a close friend who can help you to have confedent & love in & for your self.

Answer 6

Just be yourself. Just be a little more outgoing. Who cares what people have to say. It doesn't matter, as long as you like yourself. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Do not fake anything. It's far better to just be.