How was your first experience when you lost your virginity?

Question

Please, just tell me. I think I may loose it soon because my boyfriend (of a long time) is coming over my house on Saturday. How was it when you lost your virginity? How did you feel? Thank you.

Answer 1

it wasnt really anything special the first time. it just seemed like the natural way to go after being together with my boy for 2 years. it definately adds intimacy.

Answer 2

It wasn't the best thing in the world. I regret it though and wish I would have waited until I met my baby's daddy. Just make sure you are really ready. Not being pressured into something you don't wanna do.  

Answer 3

Felt good, Glad I did it, it was a great first time experience... that being said it did hurt like a b***h initially.

Answer 4

Well let me tell you something it doesn't feel good after i did it  seemed thats all he wanted from and he just left. I felt used and worthless and let me tell you don't make a mistake. I mean if you love him and loves you then you guys need to wait becaus if he really likes you he'll respect your decision not to, then he'll wait for the right time till marriage or amybe your virginity is for your future husband. i mean if you guys want to have s*x guess what you lose your virginity and h**l want more. Then once word gets out everybody will think your a s**t! I would rather let people know i am a virgin than a s**t seriously i mean boys i am done with. right  now my career is more important. I mean what are boys going to in my life get me pregant i don't think so. Well sorry i am sounding like your mom well i was just giving you a heads up. god bless you girl  

Answer 5

The first time wasn't the greatest. It hurt a lot, and I didn't like it at all. But my boyfriend seemed to really enjoy it, and he was really sympathetic to my pain, so we agreed to try again to see if it would get better. We were a lot closer after that, and the s*x did get better for me :)

Answer 6

my first time was with three girls which we were all virgins at the time and having s*x with all of them were just incredible and all of us really enjoyed our first time. I was a little nervous about being completely naked in front of three gorgeous girls but I had started to relax when one of them went done on me

Answer 7

i did it with my gf alsion it was awsome kinda was the best day of my life im 14 btw man....just saying my gf good in the bed =] but are you takeing this to the max i mean what if he not ready and your just embraase youself just think am i ready if you can think that question than i think your ready have a good time!

Answer 8

I thought s*x was overrated the first time.

Then, after the 3rd time. I started becoming addictive. After that I found Jesus. Peace!

Answer 9

I only had s*x for the first time last year, I waited till I was 21! I personally found It hurt a lot, but it doesn't for every woman.  We were in a certain lake near Fort Drum (US) and the boat capsized half way through!!

It felt totally natural because I love Chris; Some women are more emotional about s*x than others, it all depends on the chick

Answer 10

honestly when i lost my virginity i was kinda excited i was losing it but kinda disappointed. I'm like it this it....it didnt really hurt like people said, it was more,....lets say uncomfortable.but it start feeling better and less irritating. but the more you do it the better and better it will get. the guy will definitely get more out of it the first time than you will. but i promise it will be better.  just dont do it because you think you have to. do it because you want to and you know that person is worth it. that way you wont regret it.

Answer 11

I was with my boyfriend for 2months when I lost my virginity to him but we ended up being together for almost 4years. We had s*x in my car (so it wasnt romantic or anything) but it was amazing. For some girls it hurts the first time I guess it just depends on the girl, and if your hymen isnt broke yet it probably will break during intercourse and you may bleed a little bit (I did). Since you've been with your boyfriend for a long time and you love him just enjoy yourself..it might be a little bit awkward but dont let it be its an intimate wonderful time..if you want to know more email me. [e-mail] good luck!!

Answer 12

It was the most horrible thing ever, I wanted it (s*x) so bad but it hurt like h**l and I regretted it for many years after... You will hate yourself and become very depressed... You need to wait until you are older and more ready.  And make sure its with someone you love

*OF course the guys on here are going to tell you it was awesome it was great! their opinions are valueless to you.  Listen to the women, it may be great for them but its different for us. *

Answer 13

Don't' do it.  You will feel horrible.  I know this sounds corny, but your virginity is something that you should save for your husband; no matter what.  There are really no exceptions to this.  I implore you to consider not "doing it", no pun intended, you will most likely regret it for the rest of your life.  If you have more questions, feel free to email me.

Answer 14

anti-climactic. it was a chore being a virgin.

please use some protection if you're going down this road. you don't say how old you are. I think the question you should be asking is how do YOU feel about possibly losing your virginity? do you want to lose it now? are you being pressured?

Answer 15

It was a very emotional moment for me and it hurt the first time. Be prepared to fall deeply in love with him after that. It will make you feel much closer to him. (At least it did me) Its scary, but def a memory you will never forget. Make sure you are ready and he is the right one!  

Answer 16

ummm, awful, but good at the same time, i didnt really know yet.  good luck.  use protection though.

Answer 17

when i lost my virginity. i felt kinda sadd..

cuz that is something u wanna hold on to until u think u are ready..

and i didnt know if i was ready or not..

juss make sure ur gonna be with that guy ..

and that guy really cares about u .. cuz most guys jus have s*x with girls and leave..

dont let that be u.!

it has been 3 years since i lost mine.

i am still with that guy..

once u lose it.. u will feel like that guy has ur everythingg..

juss let him know how much this means to u !

hope i could be of some help..

*Britany*