How well does the "pull out" method work?

Question

ugh.. my "boyfriend" doesn't use condoms.

and we had s*x.

we did the pull out thing, and then continued, he didn't wipe off or anything.

i've been super worried about being pregnantt.

but i took a pregnancy test.......... any it was negitive.

but its only been like a week.

but i am still very very worried.

do you think i am?

what are the chances?

Answer 1

Ask your mother..

He's not the person that will deal with the pregnancy... take a lesson from Jamie Lynn Spears if you can't think on your own about this...

Answer 2

There is a little *** that comes before you climax, so it doesn't work all that well,

Answer 3

ok first of all you shouldn't be having s*x if you don't know the answer to this question.  secondly no its not a very good method.  you ever hear of pre ejaculation   its an involuntary function and you CANT feel it when it happens.  and it happens almost 100 percent of the time.  all it take is one sperm and in a small amount of discharge there are thousands.  if your boyfriend cared about you enough to be having s*x with you then he would want to use a condom for you safety.  if he truly cared then he wouldn't put you threw that risk.  if you want safe then get birth control and use a condom,  its still not 100 but its better that rolling the dice!  please fix this while you still can.  if he loves you, which he should if he thinks he can sleep with you then he will understand, if not you might want to re think your relationship

Answer 4

Tell him to PUT A CONDOM ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YOU will get PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

LMFAO.

To the person who said when air comes in contact with sperm it dies.  This is so wrong.  I think she even stated mouth or stomach as well.

So wrong.  How do you think women get pregnant when they use artificial insemination how do you think that happens?  A man ejaculates in a cup and the sperm is then fixed up and put into a small syringe and from there it is put directly into the woman.  

That woman is seriously deranged if she thins air kills sperm.  LOL.  Ignorance sure is bliss honey?

To the original poster.  Please use at least one form of BC.  If your boy friend won't use anything, time to leave.  If he doesn't make 6 figures a year, he sure as heck can't support you and a new born baby.  That in laymens term's means he could possibly be a loser and will most likely run out on you and a baby.

You yourself should really get a s*x education class.  It is obvious you don't know anything about it either.  I hope you are very worried, and I also hope it comes to nothing as well.  All we need is a young woman popping out a new born with no Dad in sight;  an all to common fact these days.

Continue your education, be safe, don't fall for the "I'm, to much of a man to use a condom" routine.

Shame on you!

Answer 6

This is the most unreliable method of birth control there is I think.  Nobody should use just one kind of birth control.  Use two.  If the condom has a tiny hole in it, you'll be protected by the other, if the pills for some reason don't work, maybe the spermicide will.  If the spermicide doesn't work, maybe the condom will protect you.  But the pull out method is a joke.  Ask my brother.  He's a pull out result!   Tell this boyfriend of yours that unless he really wants to pay child support, he'd better come well prepared the next time he's in the mood.  You very well could be pregnant already.  Take another test in a week or two.

Answer 7

More than likely you aren't but you need to be more careful and you need to get on the pill or use condoms or something.

Let me put it this way my best friend and her boyfriend use the pull out method and shes had 2 babies in the last 2 years.

So stop doing it without a condom, take the pregnancy test if you miss your period, and then get on the pill or something!

Answer 8

tell him to use condoms or f* off.

men precum, and while it's not a lot, it IS enough to get a woman pregnant.

don't take that risk.

Answer 9

me and my bf dont use condoms either. we use the "pull out" method. i have been lucky for almost a year now and not gotten pregnant. but like everyone is saying you can get pregnant. there is pre-c*m and guys normally cant control that. my bf can stop himself from actually c*mming. so we can go a longer. but when he is ready he stops way before hes about to and we finish other ways.

So you need to be careful. looks like you been getting lucky too and not getting pregnant. but i would test again in a couple weeks. you never know.  

Answer 10

its about as effective as poking you with a poisonous pin for a split second, and seeing if you'll get poisoned...

Chances are...not... since i didn't leave it inside you for the poison to spread...but just a bit remaining will do the trick right?

Are you on the pill? that reduces it alot too.

Answer 11

Well because of that method I have one more child than I planned but he is of course still loved as much as the others.

Answer 12

You need to be at least a week late with your period before a pregnancy test will work.  Don't have s*x with the pull out method it is a myth it won't get you pregnant.  If he won't use a condom and you feel you must be sexual get on the pill or tell him it's a condom or no way.

Answer 13

The pull out method is risky, because the pre-ejaculation fluids can cause pregnancy.

I wold recommend using condoms AND a foam or gel.

Answer 14

I'll tell you how well it works, I have a daughter that is 14 yrs old now.  I had the same problem.  He wouldn't use one.  At that time I was okay, but ended up pregnant.  Don't worry about being pregnant until you are late.  If you worry about it then you fret about it then you will start making yourself sick. Use protection.  Give him two choices protection or no s*x

Answer 15

It doesn't work at all. Just tell him that you won't have s*x with him anymore unless he uses a condom.  

Answer 16

pull out method is only 30% safe. so u have a 70% of getting pregnant.  

Answer 17

THAT METHOD DOES NOT WORK AT ALL BECAUSE THERE ARE CHANCES THAT PRE-*** COULD GET U PREGNANT..I SAY TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST IF YOUR PERIOD IS LATE...GOOD LUCK

Answer 18

Dont use the pull out method. It is not effective. Its only like 30-40% effective. Make him use a condom or he doesnt get any. You could also go birth control. Those are always better options than an unplanned baby

Answer 19

If your boyfriend doesn't use condoms, then neither do you.  If you are grown up enough to have s*x, you are grown up enough to take control of your own body.  Make him wear a condom.

Yes, you could be pregnant.   I hope you are not.

Answer 20

Pull out is all up to your man, if he's good at it and ejaculated onto your stomach .. in your mouth ... haha where ever then you're most likely okay.  The whole not wiping off thing, sperm dies within seconds of hitting air so you won't have to worry about that either.

The only thing you do have to worry about is pre-***.  A tiny little substance that can come up during s*x without him fully busting.  People rarely worry about and from experience I have had no mishaps.

Honestly though, you should be fine.  Don't stress about it because it will only make your period come later then normal.    

Answer 21

Short answer - If it works, you are d**n lucky.  It is NOT a reliable form of contraception...

Answer 22

Get a female condom next time and slip it in before he does anything.

Just calm down.

There aren't that great of chances but with pre-*** and all you never know.

Just chill and check with a doctor ina couple weeks.

Answer 23

my best friend is 25 weeks pregnant with the pull out method. And my pull out method is now 4 and a half years old.

IT WORKS GREAT!!!!!!   :)

Answer 24

Okay, you're chronically doing it with him, so stop using the d**n pull-out method.

Use a freakin' condom.  Not that hard.  Or get on birth control.  Don't say I didn't warn you.

Answer 25

You most likely are pregnant. Especially if he didn't wipe after he pulled out.

Why don't you just use a condom next time, it's less expensive than getting pregnant and having to pay for another human being.

Take a test in about two weeks and as for now Good Luck.

Answer 26

The method you speak of is very dangerous, and the fact that your boyfriend wont use a condom screams "DROP HIM!!!!". you are taking a chance with your life here..  Pray you aren't pregnant or worse. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED s*x!!.... the rate of transmission of HIV/AIDS is highest right now in teens and young adults. Please use your head  don't go there again without protection!.... wait another week or two and take another pregnancy test. Good luck.

Answer 27

NO!!!

don't let a guy force u in2 n-e thang!

u wear tha pants in this situation...

it DON'T work...i know a fran of mine

thought he liked that method && he

got my cousin preggie!!!

NO!

no glove...NO love!

Answer 28

If you don't want to have a baby. You should make him use a condom the pull out method is not a method of birth control.

Answer 29

It is not effective whatsoever, whether you are on birth control or not you can still get pregnant from it!

Answer 30

Yes u r going to get pregnant and u r going to have TRIPLETS!!!!!!!!

You should have used PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 31

theres a chance you can be pregnant even if he does pull out.precum can still get you pregnant,don't worry if he didn't wipe sperm is useless once it s out in the air.but make the dude wear a condom or you get on the pill other wise there will be a baby soon.