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How will I be able to relax?

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Lately I've been handling a lot of stress & hurt. I just can't deal with it anymore, I'm emotionally and physically messed up. The past has changed my life forever & there are a lot of things I wish I could take back. My boyfriend says I'm clingy and I may feel that might be true, I just like a lot of attention from boys, I hate to be alone & I always need to constantly have attention no matter what. My boyfriend even lied to me twice & he said was tired and didn't feel like doing anything tonight & knew I would to hangout with him so he made up excuses. Now I realize that I was selfish, not thinking about he wants. He cares about me too, he just needs his space. It's just really hard for me to cope about things & I've lied to some people making them look bad, when it's really myself who looks bad. I'm just going through a h**l of a time trying to fix things & get my life back in order. I want to have more confidence in myself & appreciate things more because I'll admit, I'm spoiled..I'm needy & I constantly beg for attention. I just think I need to think a lot about things before I do them. I'm just sorry for all the trouble I caused the people that love me, I want them to be proud of me and be able to appreciate me more!

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  1. Stop!!!!  First go out and do something real nice for yourself, get a facial, a massage, buy a new outfit or a nice new piece of jewelry.  Next get involved in activities that will bring you attention without having to work for it so hard.  Volunteer at the local hospital, senior center or homeless shelter.  Start giving of yourself and you will start getting the attention that by the way all of us need and want.  The problem is you have not found a way to get the attention in the appropriate way.  This way you will not be hanging onto your boyfriend so much and he will appreciate you more.  Good luck, it sounds like your heart is in the right place.

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