I recently got engaged and plan to get married next year. I've never, ever dreamed of having a wedding because my parents have been unhappily divorced for 12 years and weddings are expensive. My fiance doesn't want to elope, so it looks like we're having a wedding!
My question is this: Is it okay to not have my father walk me down the aisle? Can I walk with my fiance instead? Will the traditionalists in the audience gasp with horror? Will my father be offended? Or should I have both parents walk me down the aisle? (I don't know if I could stand it walking between the two of them) Can I just avoid walking down the aisle altogether?
Also, my brother hates my father. They haven't talked in years (although my father has tried to reestablish a relationship with him). I don't want either of them to feel uncomfortable, but I also don't want to put up with an endless barrage of questions from my dad about my brother. How can I bring this up tactfully?
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