How will i get the motivation to drive again?

Question

Well i am learning how to drive..Anyways, as i was trying to change lanes some moron in a suburban..accelerates trying to pass me in the other lane.. cuts next to me and starts cursing me out on while shes on the phone.honking at me..should i scream back next time?.. i am still kinda tramatized cuz i almost got in a bad accident i am 15..i guess it would have been entirely my fault..i feel bad that this is how i am going to end up driving for life :(..if it wasnt for the passenger window being broken i would have put down the window and told her to **** off! arg..advice?

Answer 1

your a new driver.  everyone makes mistakes when they first drive.  its part of life, get over it dude.  i hate drivers on their phones!

Answer 2

Just relax for a couple of weeks and then go at it again.   It's normal to have some close calls when you're learning, although it sounds like yours was worse than usual.

Answer 3

If you can't handle the responsibilities of driving, then dont do it.  It is a big deal, though most people dont think it is.  If you aren't mature enough to handle it, then dont.

Answer 4

The incident you went through is part of driving.  It won't be the last time.  Learn from it and don't let a jerk ruin your day.

Take your time while driving and go with the flow of traffic.  Use your blinker when changing lanes and hopefully, someone will give you a break and let you in.  Give the speed demons room and avoid them when possible.  They're usually the ones involved in accidents and rollovers.

Good luck and don't let the bad drivers bother you so much.  Most of us drivers are good and considerate people.

Answer 5

Actually, those experiences make you a better driver. Driving requires lots of responsibility, and it's not only about not doing reckless or stupid things yourself, it's also about being aware of other idiots.

I've been in 5 accidents, no fatalities, none my fault. Time will eventually heals most traumatic experiences. Of course, I've become more "aware", for example, I try to avoid making left turns if there's too much traffic (UPS GPS/navi's avoid left turns too!), maintain distance, patiently wait, watch what other idiot drivers are doing, etc.

Answer 6

well I think you have to learn things patiently and inteligently, well you have remember it by heart what you are learning now... good luck! ;)

Answer 7

no need to curse back. just roll up next to the ***** and rev up at 7k rpms, then pass her... cut in front of her... and SLAM UR BRAKES. i do it all the time.

Answer 8

Don't slam on your brakes and cause an accident. Don't tell other drivers to **** off. Just concentrate on the road and figure there will be times that people make you mad. So what? If you let those little things ruin your day, then the big things will seem even bigger. The woman was a jerk, so let her deal with her nasty behavior. Yelling at her only lowers yourself to her level.

Answer 9

lol,jk,srry,um....well im 13 and i drive sometimes well a lot but just round the city and ya i've made people mad too,but u just have to learn to get over it.the person was probally having a bad day and u were probally in the wrong spot at the wrong time,and if u look young for ur age some people get angry like not at me but at my friends.just let it go its no big deal! good luck!