How will you know if a man only wants your visa that's why he marry you?

Question

I know this is a 'common sense' question but it all goes to person who are in love who cannot see the real reason why a man would want to marry her. Some guidelines to every person to be careful of marrying someone not of their own kind.

Answer 1

When u have some terrible bad times and hes there to help u and hand him his hand. when he accepts you for who u are. when u see that hes proud of you. when he makes effort to please you. in every aspects and when he makes plan with you.  if u commit a big mistakes and hes hurt but stil there to accept and forgive you.

Answer 2

Listen to the voice of experience here when it comes to romance:

If you fear it, it's probably true.  Listen to your gut.  Subscribe to this theory:  Dont ever listen to a darn thing a man says; watch everything the man does.  His actions are the most important things.  

I have been dragging a v****a around on this earth a long time and I have been around the block a time or two in the romance neighborhood.  My gut has NEVER been wrong.  Every time I have been wronged in a relationship, there was a little voice whispering to me in my head to watch out.....and I let my better sense be overcome by his proclamations otherwise.

PS--Happily married to the world's most perfect person for me for 2 years now.

Answer 3

well from personal experience, if thats all the person talks about in regard to marrying you, then they dont want marriage for love but just papers

Answer 4

Hello Sam i met my wife online and

i have spent some $15,000 so to get her into australia.....she was here for 12 months and then had to go back. I sold all i had to go to thailand then to philpines where we lived in the slums.Who can say really where a persons heart is at.....they may love u for U. but watch out for signs, let them stay in there own place for a while an see what happens,,,

Answer 5

Just get to know a little bit better, if he's only talkin about marriage well that means that he really doesnt love you and that is all he whants the a visa..... just take time to know the person he might end up loving you.........

Answer 6

Not marrying him immediately.  Let him wait.  Let him struggle of maintaining legally in this country.  If he is out of status, and you've been dating for 2 years and more.  Then you may consider to marry him.  If not, don't take any chance.  I try not to think people has intention of doing it.  But, protecting oneself is also important.

Good luck.

Answer 7

Get to know him, spend some time with him, see how eager he is to move to your country.  Talk to him about you moving to his country instead.  Tell him that you might not qualify to sponsor him.  If he goes away, he was just after the papers, if he stays, he was not.

Answer 8

tell him you cant afford to get married or tell him you have to finish school and make him wait at least 1 years - or 2 years if possible.

this also allows for a relationship to grow properly.