How would I know I'm infertile?

Question

Hey, Um.....this is kinds disgusting, so sorry guys but I need to know!! Well, me and my boyfriend have s*x ALOT, and we dont use any kind of contraception. I wouldnt say were trying to conceive, but we'd like to!! So were just seeing how it goes. I've had doubts in the past if I could actually get pregnant, the docs told me my diet is hugely affecting it, and I have really irregular periods! So I dont know what to do!! A while ago the doc told me that If i didnt get pregnant within a 6 month period, there may be a problem. He also mentioned he didnt want to do any tests on me ther and then because of other circumstances. Does it sound like I am? We have s*x alot, an have been using no contraception for at least 6-7 months now! I dont know what to do? Thanks in advance, sorry for asking this guys!!

Answer 1

Sounds like you both need to get checked out, because it may not be you.  But if you've been told that your diet (I don't know what you mean as you didn't specify) is wrong then why don't you start getting that sorted and get fit and take your folic acid don't smoke, if you do, don't drink too much.  Then see how it goes before you get worried.

Irregular periods shouldn't really affect it as mine are like that and I have a kid.

Good luck though, hope you can sort everything out x

Answer 2

i used pre seed lubricant which helps the little guys get to the right place faster and easier, i was pregnant the first month of using it! you never no give it a try

Answer 3

Don't worry about it. The more you worry and stress out about becoming pregnant, the less likely it is to happen. I was over weight for almost 7 years and couldn't concieve. I lost weight while sticking to a diet and walked  a mile a day. It took me a year to get to my goal, and got pregnant almost immediately. The tests your doctor wants to do are a good idea. It can only help.

Note: I've known women who were told they were infertile, and still conceived. Don't give up!

Answer 4

yes you could. what do you mean diet? are you over or underweight? Change to a healthier diet and see how things work.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Lots of people try for this long without getting pregnant.

Time to get those tests the doctor was talking about.

Answer 6

your 16 years old

you dont like fruit or vegetables, and refuse to eat them

you have unprotected s*x

you want a baby

doesnt sound like your ready to be a mother.

a good mother makes sacrifices, follows rules she'd rather not follow and at least eats healthily for the benefit of her child.

you say you 'cant' eat vegetables, well if you cant handle a few carrots how are you going give birth, stay awake all night tending to a crying child, and give your life up for another at such a young age.

i dont mean to be rude but your still a child live your life first, mother hood is very difficult you ARE NOT  ready.

i had my daughter at 18 (unplanned) id been with my parther for 4 years when she was concieved and it changed everything.

imagine not being able to go shopping when you want or watching your friends go on girly holidays while you sit at home breastfeeding and mopping up poo.

its not romantic, it doesnt get you money, love or a house.

please please please use protection for your sake.

Answer 7

May be its him???

Answer 8

Strange as it might seem having s*x a lot can actually hinder you trying to get pregnant!  We found that and had to concentrate on my fertile days which worked better.  Its sort of like the guy needs to 'regroup his troups' by saving them up for a few days before your fertile time.

Having irregular periods doesn't help but waiting for 6 mos to a year is common before being tested for anything.  Go back to your docs and get the tests in motion, then you will know if there is a problem and what treatment you may need but try not to worry.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Well have you actually taken any of the doctor's advice? Have you changed your diet?

Because having a baby is the most life changing thing you will every go through - and if you can't even change that then you aren't ready.