How would I solve this Drama?

Question

Me and Delaney were best friends. But we were taking a walk back in March, and I decided to be a J@ck @$$ and go straight, she turned. I turned around and looked for her but didn;t know where she went, so I walk towards my house. Her sister pulled up into my Driveway and Delaney got out and got her stuff out of my room and left. About a week or two later, We hung out again. Way before that, she had given me a friendship necklace.

After the 'incident' it came up missing. I didnt think anything of it until my friend Sammy left and forgot her wallet. Sam and Delaney are best friends. Sooo I open Sam's wallet and find my necklace. I confronted Sam and she said Delaney made her. Delaney said she had no idea what sam was talking about.

I later found out that Sam WAS lying and Delaney had nothing to do with it. So I apologized to Delaney and things were better, but not that good, we never hung out or spoke. Just passed noted in class.

Then in early June a note was found. I didn't write it, but I got framed anyway. It was completely INSULTED TO THE POINT OF NO RETURN to Delaney. She wouldn't even listen to me when I tried to say it wasn't me.

About a week or so, Kayla (Delaney's best friend)'s phone came up missing. Delaney started a rumor that I stole it. But I didn't.

-fast forward to July-

Arden, Delaney's sister, had her friend Sheila add me on myspace. Sheila was rude and wouldn't let thing's go about Delaney and me. She kept insulting me, and so did Arden.

But I don't care about the past, Delaney and me were THE BEST of friends and we had SO much fun together. I just wan't to be friends with her again. Like, if we have classes together should i write her a note and apologize... or what should I do?

We're both 13 and in 8th grade.

Answer 1

First of all, you've posted this in the wrong section.

But to answer your question, you should ell your friend how you feel. Go to her house (This is NOT a phone call or a note, she needs to see your face so she can know you are sincere.), and just tell her, "Look, we've been friends for a while now, and I am not willing to walk away. I'm sorry for the misunderstanding, and would really like us to be friends again. I miss you."

Good luck!

Answer 2

Be the bigger person and apologize

If she won't accept your apology, find another friend

Answer 3

Write her a letter.

Dear (name)

Tell her what you are sorry for. Ask her of remeberance of what yall did that was fun. tell her you sorry again! Keep apologizing. The end! Tell her you sorry. Its called forgive and forget. This question was interesting!

love(name)

Answer 4

Ugh. I hate it when drama like that happens. It sucks...Trust is important in any type of relationship; intimate, friendship etc...If she can't trust you, then she's not worthy of being your friend. Let her apologize on her own time. In 7th grade(I'll be in 8th grade at the end of this month too)it was my friend Vanessa's birthday. She was getting a bunch of birthday punches from people. I was the first to give them to her...And they weren't hard. We have PE 3rd period together and this girl named Melissa who I used to be friends with and I were talking. I told her she could punch her lightly on her back. But it wasn't a suggestion. I was just saying. So Vanessa automatically assumed that I told her: Go punch Vanessa. When I didn't. So Vanessa hit me(weakly. Considering she's the weakest person to ever walk the planet)and of course I hit her back. I didn't talk to her for a few days. Then one of her friends, Sylivia was saying: Eww! I got cooties! When I touched Melissa's arm(I wanted to talk to her alone) and then she touched it. I got really pissed off. Later that day the counselor called me into her office and asked if I wanted to resolve the problem with them. But I said no because they weren't the type of girls I really wanted to be friends with. At the end of the week on Thursday(This was back in April)I was in the girl's bathroom and her friend Sam came in. At first we ignored each other. Then she told me that she was sorry for what she did(She was involved with a lot of it) and I said sorry to her. We ended up coming to an agreement. But Me and Vanessa didn't apologize until May 29(Funny how I remember the day. One of the worst days of my life). It just goes to show, that if your 'friends' can't own up and apologize when they've done something wrong, you shouldn't waste your time on them.  

Answer 5

i had a similar problem. me and andrea were the best of friends we went on vacations together and hung out all the time. then this other girl came into the picture and was bound and determined to take andrea away from me. this other girl has issues that if your her friend you cant have anyothers. well andrea fell under her spell and we got into a big fight. we were just starting high school and i didn't have a best friend to lean on and it was scary. but soon the other girl and andrea got into a fight and andrea finally saw what this other girl does. now we are rebuilding our friendship and **** happens. this will happen bit if you guys are ment to be true blue best friends you will make it through this just give it time. good luck and you can email me at anytime if you have any questions @ [e-mail]  

Answer 6

Move on with your life!  Don't talk to her anymore.  And don't apologize if you've done nothing wrong!  You'll just look desperate.  Naah!  With shady best friends like that who needs enemies?!!

And besides, Delaney should be the one to apologize to YOU.  If she was really your friend she wouldn't have let those girls diss you like that!  You're better off without all that drama.  Align yourself with nice, honest people.  

And remember,  the term "friend", is a privilege.  You can't call everyone friend and best friend.  In your entire life you'll only have a handfull of people that you can really call "friend."      

Answer 7

You need to talk to Delaney. Like a sit down conversation--not argument-- and explain everything to her. If that doesn't work then maybe you weren't meant to be friends. Don't get involved though. Just ignore them as best you can.  

Answer 8

Why would you be apologizing? You didn't do anything mean to her! If she was your best friend, why didn't she listen to you? To at least give you a chance?

Maybe she wasn't that great of a friend...